It turns out that when we fell in love, a lot of problems were revealed, but I didn't want to admit it.
When we were together, we ate in small restaurants, and if I went to a slightly more expensive restaurant, I either AA or I paid, and I never cared about it before, and I felt that I had a job and could afford it.
So, Zhiqi told the process of her meeting her boyfriend Lao Wang.
When she knew Lao Wang, she had been single for five years, and because she had a failed love experience, she never thought that she would fall in love in this life.
Zhiqi and Lao Wang are colleagues, one is finance, and the other is sales.
In order for his money to be able to apply quickly, Lao Wang sent a small gift to Zhiqi every three or five times, and the two became acquainted with each other.
Later, Lao Wang confessed to Zhiqi that he hoped to be his girlfriend, and after unremitting efforts, Zhiqi accepted Lao Wang.
When the two of them first got together, every time they rode a shared bicycle, they ate in a small restaurant.
Once, on the road, two people chatted about the mobile phone that had just been launched recently, and it happened that the mobile phone accidentally broke the screen and planned to change the phone.
Lao Wang said that he would let Zhiqi wait until he got married to change it, and then he would buy an Apple mobile phone and give it to her.
Zhiqi joked: You don't have to wait until you get married, you can buy it now.
At this time, Lao Wang retorted: This is the wedding gift I will give you in the future, and when I think of a good gift, I will buy you this mobile phone, and when I get married, I will give you other ones.
Later, he still knew that he paid for the mobile phone, and Lao Wang accused him of spending money indiscriminately, and said that he said that he would buy it for you when he got married, why can't you wait.
What he didn't know was that Zhiqi's mobile phone had crashed, which seriously affected his work.
In this way, after knowing each other for a year, the two decided to enter the palace of marriage.
At this time, there was a discussion about the house, the car, the bride price and other issues, and there was also the first quarrel between the two people since they met.
Lao Wang's family is from the county seat, and his parents are ordinary workers, considering the family situation, the two of them decided to marry naked.
In order not to buy a house when he got married, Lao Wang began to sell miserably, and gave him a **, saying that the current housing price is so expensive, and a house will cost millions.
It is not easy for his parents to raise him so big, and he can't let his parents go into debt because of marriage.
In addition, buying a house is more cost-effective than renting a house, and the money saved can be tasted together.
At the same time, Lao Wang said: If my parents knew that you would be very happy if you thought about them so much, my parents also said that they would treat you as their own daughter in the future.
Knowing that he didn't want to embarrass Lao Wang, he agreed.
Later, Lao Wang wanted to buy a car, saying that if you have a car, you can drive directly when you go home in the future, and you don't have to take the train anymore.
After you get married, you don't have to go to work, or you go back to my hometown, live with my parents, and then find a more relaxed job, drive to work every day, and feel more comfortable these days.
The problem is that Lao Wang has no money, and if he buys a car, he also knows how to pay.
Lao Wang took a fancy to a car, and the overall calculation was less than 200,000, and he planned to take out a loan to buy it, knowing that he would bear 80,000 yuan, Lao Wang added 20,000 yuan, and the rest of the money was borrowed by Lao Wang.
In this way, the two of them settled, after buying a car, because Lao Wang repays the loan every month, there is no extra money to pay the rent, and the living expenses in the next few years will be borne by Zhiqi.
In addition, Lao Wang will be given 2,000 yuan per month for living expenses.
Knowing that he was stunned by Lao Wang's sugar-coated cannonball, he agreed to Lao Wang's proposal.
At the same time, he also followed Lao Wang's suggestion and replaced the three gold ones with silver ones, because Lao Wang said that ** didn't look good when he wore it, and he looked like a nouveau riche.
Regarding the bride price, Lao Wang said: How much bride price is there in your house, we are no longer popular to give bride price, and now don't all advocate not bride price?
Even if there is, it is not allowed to have a **bride price, which feels like selling a daughter.
Now the marriage is accompanied by the woman, the more the dowry, the more important it is in the in-law's family after marriage, you can ask your parents to prepare a dowry of 200,000 yuan.
Besides, our feelings for so many years cannot be measured by money.
Knowing this, he suddenly understood that Lao Wang just wanted to get married without spending a penny, and later learned that he chose to break up because of Lao Wang's calculations.
Knowing that he did not argue, he packed his bags and left the city on a dark and windy night, intending to start afresh and never see him again.
After 5 years, she found her own happiness, and her husband thought about her in everything.
When they got married, the house and car were prepared in advance, and they didn't let them worry about it, and they had a lovely daughter after marriage.
Later, I learned that he was on a business trip and met their mutual friends, and after learning that, Lao Wang talked about several girlfriends, and finally ended in a breakup, and he is currently single.
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