The surname culture has a long history in China, and what is the name of the surname is sometimes related to the unity and development of an ethnic group and family. The change of names is also a microcosm of the times, and some names are even branded with the times, and you can probably guess which era it is when you hear the name. As an elder, it is important to give your child a name, behind which can reflect the parent's cultural level, education, aesthetics, expectations for the child, and so on. So will a name that has been messed up by parents cause trouble for children?
In recent years, there has been a phenomenon of parents giving their children incredible names on the Internet, and everyone has posted their baby's birth certificate while watching the excitement, which has gradually evolved into a bizarre naming feast. A few years ago, parents gave their children a beautiful name, as if the romantic and beautiful hero and heroine in romance**, some netizens ridiculed that this was the group of people who loved to watch romance** as parents. Slowly, however, the style of the names chosen by parents has shifted, not just for the sake of sounding good and literally harmonious.
Parents gradually turned their attention to four-word or even five-word names, showing their new ideas and new pursuits for naming. I took a class of 55 students, of which four-character names accounted for one-fifth, but none of them were compound surnames, basically the surnames of father and mother were added up, and then two words were taken. To be honest, it is difficult for people to have a good feeling of this name by forcibly four-character names, but if it is not particularly ugly, everyone is used to calling Xi, and it will not have any adverse effects on children.
However, the appearance of the five-word name is somewhat puzzling. Similar to "Zhang Zhou Mu Yuchen", "Tangerine Peel Plum Candy", "Zhuyuan Wangxinyu" and other five-character names have set off a wave of discussion on the Internet, it is hard to imagine that this is a name taken out by parents thoughtfully, more like a boring random keyboard generated, although every word looks so normal, but the combination is incredible.
Does this peculiar naming style have any effect on children?Personally, I think there are more or less still there, parents patronize their own ideas when they choose a name, and they can't wait to put beautiful words on their children's names, have you ever thought that such a name will have a bad impact on your child's future school Xi ing, social interaction, and work?
First of all, children may be ridiculed by classmates at school because their names are too special, or even given nicknames, and children may feel embarrassed and embarrassed because of this, resulting in a heavy psychological burden on children, and even complaining about why parents choose such names for themselves. Secondly, in daily life, there are still a lot of signatures, and you spend more time than others just writing your own name, and writing your name has become a tedious task.
Behind the name, there is a hidden inheritance of family culture, showing individuality and not forgetting to integrate tradition. As a parent, you should think more rationally about how to choose a suitable name for your child.