We often complain that our children are particularly "abrasive", getting up, dressing, brushing teeth, going out, doing homework, and eating.
In the face of children's friction, as parents, we can't help but be angry, constantly urging and complaining.
But often the result is that the time of friction is getting longer and longer, and the more you urge, the slower and slower, and the more you rush, the more you grind.
In fact, children's awareness and cognition of time are weak, and the cultivation of a good concept of time is inseparable from the education and guidance of parents.
If you want your child to enhance her concept of time, you must first let your child feel time and feel the passage of time.
A mother said that when the seasons change every year, she will take her children out for nothing else, just to cultivate her children's awareness of the passage of time and the alternation of seasons.
Children will understand that flowers bloom in spring, scream in summer, turn yellow in autumn, and snow in winter.
What happens is different at different times.
Time passes very quickly, and in the process of feeling the passage of time, children will become more aware of the importance of time.
Then you can actually start from these aspects.
1. When facing all kinds of **, all kinds of entertainment, you can start from the time you have, only by knowing that time is the most precious thing in life, in order to control time, and then, in order to truly combine time and life. However, in reality, people are the most unconscious waste of time, and the most random throwing behavior abounds. Moreover, everyone understands the importance of time in their hearts, and at the same time, they don't take time seriously, because time seems to be endless, and if it doesn't come to that day, they don't know that time waste is the biggest waste, and finally waste the whole life.
2. Let the child be the master of his own time. Parents need to keep in mind that children should let their children do their own things, starting from the age of three, parents should subconsciously cultivate their children's self-management ability, let children be the little masters of their own time, within the agreed time range, parents do not intervene, do not interfere, do not urge, let children become the real managers of this period of time.
When children have a strong sense of time and the ability to allocate their own time, the efficiency of children's learning and Xi will be greatly improved, and children will be more independent and better.
3. Don't urge your child too often, and guide your child to do more fine motor training.
Someone once compared accompanying a child's growth to be like taking a snail for a walk, which means telling parents that they need to be patient with their child's growth.
It is also mentioned above that children's muscle development needs a process, and the development of children's fine and gross movements is also a gradual process, parents should understand the development characteristics of children of different ages, and try not to urge children frequently in daily life, otherwise it is easy to produce overrun effects.
I once saw a mother who patiently watched her two-year-old son practice Xi wearing shoes, and let him wear them for half an hour.
If you want to go out, you can take into account the special situation of the child, try to prepare enough time, and then tell the child in advance, "You are ready to go" Let the child cooperate automatically, which can improve efficiency.
In addition, you can guide your child to do more activities or games to exercise fine hand movements, such as stickers, paper cuts, puzzles, building blocks, etc., which are conducive to training children's fine hand movements.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.
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