Gift-giving can be said to be a traditional Xi, every holiday or special day, to give a gift to others, to express their heart, is more appropriate.
Even for their parents, during the Mid-Autumn Festival or the Spring Festival, many places have to give gifts, especially on the second day of the Lunar New Year, when the daughter takes her son-in-law back to her parents' house and goes back empty-handed, it is obviously unfilial to her parents.
Although parents don't care about the number of gifts, whether they are expensive or not, if they don't give their parents a gift on such a festival to show filial piety, even if their parents don't say anything on the surface, they must be uncomfortable in their hearts.
But the choice of gifts, whether it is for parents, or other relatives and friends, is particular, if you do not give gifts according to your own preferences regardless of the occasion, it is likely to bring trouble to yourself.
Nowadays, many people usually use red envelopes instead of gifts in order to avoid trouble, but in ancient times, gifts need to be very cautious, the old man said well: if you don't give away four things, your children and grandchildren will be rich. So what are the four things?
When people give gifts, whether they are friends or family members, they will use fruits as gifts to express their greetings and concerns, which is also a relatively common gift.
Apples, bananas, strawberries, and other fruits and melons are a gift that is cheap and delicious when choosing seasonal fruits, and the person who receives the fruit gift will also be happy.
But there are some fruits with bad meanings, you must remember, don't give them away, no matter who you are, you won't be happy after receiving them.
If it is an ordinary friend who wants to enhance their friendship with each other, it is very likely that they will break up when they see these fruits with bad meanings.
So what is a fruit with a bad meaning?For example, plums and pears, if you look closely at the people around you giving gifts, you will never see anyone giving these two fruits.
Because these two fruits are homophonic with "leave", meaning separation, even if they are not elderly people, others do not want to see someone give these two fruits.
Even if you buy it from your own family and eat it, you must eat it whole, and you don't eat plums or pears separately.
This can be said to be the unanimous opinion of many people, because no one wants to be separated. In short, for such an unlucky fruit, do not give it away at any time.
In the sixties and seventies, people's living conditions were not good, and many children wore other people's old clothes, and even a piece of clothing had to be worn for several years, even if it was broken, it would have to be worn for several years after being mended
It can be said that in the era of scarcity of materials, it is a blessing to be able to eat and clothe warmly, whether it is an adult or a child, the requirements for clothes are not high, so it is very happy to see the old clothes sent by relatives and friends, and the family that is not financially rich.
Even if some of them are old and worn, they don't care, they wash and mend them by themselves, and they put them on directly, and they will be grateful and grateful to the people who gave them old clothes.
But nowadays, if someone gives away old clothes, there will never be such treatment, because everyone's standard of living is good, and some people's clothes are only worn a few times, because they are outdated, they may not hesitate to throw them away.
In such a situation, what should the other person think if you give someone something you don't wear?Most of them feel uncomfortable in their hearts. If giving a gift makes the other person unhappy, it is better not to give it.
The reason why many people are reluctant to accept other people's old clothes is because they think they have the financial means to buy new clothes, and only people with poor family conditions are likely to consider wearing other people's old clothes.
That's also when there is no other option, and most people now think that old clothes worn by others may have bacteria, or affect their luck and so on.
Therefore, whether you want a good friend or think that the other party's family conditions are not good, without the consent of the other party, do not give away the old clothes you don't wear, even if they are still very new.
In Western culture, clocks are a symbol of punctuality and good luck, but in China, if you give a watch as a gift, it is likely to hurt your feelings.
Even the best friends may have a rift in the friendship with the giver because of the gift of the clock, or end up being strangers, not to mention the older generation.
Because the bell is homophonic with "sending the end", especially the older generation, they are very concerned about it, even if the clock is beautiful in appearance and valuable, but also because of its homophonic problem, so that the recipient feels uncomfortable.
The purpose of giving gifts to friends is to strengthen the relationship, not to cause the friendship to break down, so even if it is large, be careful in this regard and never make the recipient uncomfortable.
In addition to clocks, it is best not to give watches, although to give this gift, it may be to hope that the other party is punctual, or to praise the other party's self-discipline, some people may not have much idea about the gift of watches, but the elderly in his family may be very sensitive.
Rather than potentially incurring the displeasure of others, it is better to choose other gifts with good meanings, so that you can enhance the relationship between each other and make the friendship more long-lasting.
Even people who don't have a habit of cleanliness are insensitive to the shoes that others have worn, and even if the shoes are only worn once or twice, the recipient may be upset.
Shoes are different from other gifts, and the shoes worn may have more bacteria than old clothes, and it is not clear to the other party whether the owner of the shoes has athlete's foot, and in such doubts, of course, they cannot wear them on their own feet.
In addition, some elderly people think that the shoes worn by others do not have a good meaning, and the shoes that have walked a lot imply a bumpy future, or that receiving such shoes has the meaning of driving the recipient away.
In short, giving away the old shoes you wear to others, no matter how new or old the shoes are, will make people feel unhappy, and a gift that makes people feel awkward can have a great impact on the relationship with each other.
In addition, the standard of living is now very high, and every family can be fed and clothed, and they will choose according to their preferences when it comes to buying clothes.
In this case, giving away old shoes that you don't wear is likely to make people think that you are looking down on yourself. So from any point of view, it is very inappropriate to give old shoes to others.
No matter who the other party is, don't give away these four objects, otherwise it will affect the relationship between the two parties.
When choosing a gift, it is important to choose a gift that suits the other person's heart in order to make the other person happy to see the gift.
It is basically impossible to understand the actual needs of the other person and give gifts according to their interests and hobbies, so that everyone can be happy.
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