In traditional Chinese culture, "Caigen Tan" has always been highly respected by people for its unique wisdom and profound truth. One of the sentences:"Let one step be high, and regression is progressTreating others with leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest", but also the true meaning of living in the world.
First of all,"Let one step be high, and regression is progress"。This sentence tells us that when dealing with interpersonal relationships and facing conflicts, it is very necessary to make appropriate concessions and compromises. Sometimes, in order to assert our positions and opinions, we may have arguments and conflicts with others, but doing so often only brings more contradictions and harm. And if we can take a step back at the right time, not only can things be solved better, but we can also leave room for ourselves and lay the foundation for future progress. Because sometimes, regression is not really a failure, but to move forward for the better.
Secondly,"Treating others with leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest"。This sentence tells us to be tolerant and generous with others, and not to be careful. Because only when we genuinely care for and help others, can we win the trust and respect of others and create better opportunities and blessings for ourselves. If we are always harsh and mean to others, we will only end up in a situation where we are isolated. Therefore, being lenient with others is a kind of wisdom and blessing, and it is also the basis for benefiting others and oneself.
In summary,"Let one step be high, and regression is progressTreating others with leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest"This quote tells us that we should take a step back when dealing with interpersonal relationships to lay the foundation for future progress;Be tolerant and generous with others, sincerely care for and help others, and create better opportunities and blessings for yourself. Only in this way can we gain a foothold in this complex and ever-changing society and become a trustworthy person.