At the age of 40, after 20 years of marriage, I look back and my life is a mess. Life is like a meandering river, and it takes all kinds of torrents to understand the realm of "the light boat has crossed the ten thousand mountains". As I turned 40, I suffered a severe midlife crisis and even had negative feelings about my life for a while. I met my husband at the age of 18, and it was hard to let go of my deep love, and we went from youth to intellectual maturity under the blessing of the two parents, and spent 22 spring and autumn together.
When I was 20 years old, I chose to marry him, and the two of us built a warm little family together. At the age of 27, our daughter came, and we have the loveliest angel in our hearts. In those years, we regarded each other as the only love in this life. However, in the past 10 years of marriage journey, no matter where we go, we will always shake hands, and he always smiles and says, I'm afraid I'll get lost if I don't hold hands. When I was 33 years old, my husband went to a foreign country for work, so I quit my job and did my best to take care of the family and become a full-time mother in the eyes of my daughter. Despite the time difference of more than ten hours, we still maintain daily ** calls, telling endless thoughts.
I was so happy that I thought my life was complete. As long as there is love, distance is nothing. However, as time went on, he began to complain that I had nothing to do, believing that my daughter's poor school performance was my responsibility, and that my daughter's disfigurement, vision loss, and crooked teeth were all due to my negligence. In those years, conflict and blame gradually replaced the sweetness of the past. How is this a man I have known at the age of 18 and loved me for 20 years?I thought that by solving the distance problem, my husband would be able to regain the beauty of the past when he returned, but Mr.'s attitude was chilling.
At the age of 37, my husband finally returned home. I naively thought that this small family would no longer be like duckweed in the water. However, what awaits me is not the expected redemption, but a storm that destroys the family. The financial crisis has completely changed him, and the gentleness and care he used to give me is long gone. He stopped whispering, but lashed out at me and my daughter. During this time, life has become extremely difficult. But how easy is it for me to give up my beloved?So I tolerate as much as I can, trying to save this family that is on the verge of being broken.
But I don't know how to get it back!Later, I searched for marriage counseling on the Internet, and now I can enjoy a 50-minute marriage trade-off analysis for 0 yuan. Anyway, I don't want money, let's listen to the marriage expert to analyze it for me first!
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