The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is about the most difficult problem to solve in China for 5,000 years.
Speaking of the attitude of the Queen Mother Wu Yashi to her son's large group of wives in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", some people say that she doesn't like Zhen Huan, I want to say that she doesn't like Zhen Huan, Chunyuan, Concubine Hua, and even her niece daughter Yixiu She doesn't like any of them. Shen Meizhuang is the only exception.
Let's analyze Wu Ya's "mother-in-law psychology".
It stands to reason that Chunyuan and Yi Xiu are also the nieces of the queen, and she should treat them with a bowl of water. However, Wu Yashi did not like Chunyuan.
The reason why I don't like Chunyuan is precisely because the emperor loves Chunyuan too much.
Anyone can have such a thing as love, but the emperor can't have it.
In the history of the Qing Dynasty, there was the most well-known "love emperor", that is, Emperor Shunzhi, the father-in-law of the Empress Dowager Wuya. This emperor died soon after the death of Concubine Dong E because of excessive sadness, and there are legends that he left his country and went to Wutai Mountain to become a monk. When Emperor Shunzhi was alive, he also indifferent the queen because he favored Concubine Dong E, and he was on the same page as his mother Xiaozhuang.
Yin Jian is not far away, and Wu Ya will never allow another Dong E clan to appear among his daughters-in-law, fascinate the emperor to death, and even turn against him.
In the same way, she doesn't like all women who look like Chunyuan, so after seeing Zhen Huan's face on the day of the draft, the Queen Mother let the cat and poured tea, and said that her name violated the emperor's taboo, and chased and intercepted Zhen Huan for various reasons.
In the final analysis, Zhen Huan was just affected by Chunyuan.
Don't like your daughter-in-law to be too dazzling, probably the common psychology of all mothers-in-law in the world, let alone in ancient feudal society. Whether it is the queen mother or the mother-in-law of ordinary people, the expectations for her daughter-in-law should be "gentle and respectful" and "dignified", and she doesn't like to pinch the tip to be strong and sharp.
But Zhen Huan is such a person.
In fact, before Zhen Huan, Shen Meizhuang had already demonstrated the standard of the best daughter-in-law.
The Queen Mother asked Shen Meizhuang what books he had read. Shen Meizhuang said, "The courtiers are dull, they have read "Women's Rules" and "Women's Training", and they know a few words. The Queen Mother was very satisfied.
This is the standard answer that Shen Meizhuang's mother said when she was doing pre-exam counseling at home, and Shen's mother said: The emperor is a draft girl and not a champion in the exam. Therefore, Shen Meizhuang covered up his full stomach of talent and learning to meet the needs of the royal family.
And Zhen Huan, who followed Meizhuang's interview, did not want to copy the standard answers because she wanted to lose the election, and "did not take the usual path".
The emperor asked her which word "Huan" in her name was, and she replied that "Huan Huan is a waist in the Chu Palace, which is the name of the courtier's daughter."
You must know that "Huan Huan is a waist in the Chu Palace" is a beautiful poem written by Cai Shen, a lyricist in the Song Dynasty!
With the talent of the Empress Dowager Wuya, it is unknown whether she can hear the meaning behind this sentence, but this answer must have violated the principle that the Empress Dowager herself insisted on "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented". And this Empress Dowager Wuya was named "Concubine De" when she was in Kangxi.
Talent is in the belly, just like a woman who is about to give birth in October, and she can't hide it. And once the women in the harem have talent, they can't help but interfere in politics and violate the rules set by their ancestors.
After Zhen Huan entered the palace, she became a female talent in the palace, a female Zhuge , and went in and out of the Palace of Nourishing Heart to serve the emperor's pen and ink. and to some extent interfered in the government affairs of the previous dynasty, and was eventually rejected by the emperor because of his opinions on Qian Mingshi's "Ancient Xiangting Poems" and the "Chunyuan Old Clothes" incident.
In the final analysis, the Queen Mother doesn't like Yi Xiu either, and is more helpless to her.
The Queen Mother said to Yi Xiu that Chunyuan's temperament was too soft, so he couldn't be the queen - this was just an excuse. Could it be that it is advisable to cultivate this kind of moral degradation, and the **mad demon of the psychological ** is suitable to be the queen?
No normal mother-in-law likes to see her grandchildren die one after another, and her son is still empty at the bottom of her knees when she is old.
What's more, Yi Xiu was not so respectful to the Queen Mother after overthrowing Zhen Huan and mastering the power of the harem, and he dared to talk back to the Queen Mother head-on, completely revealing his hideous and ugly face.
If it weren't for the queen's throne to remain in the Ulanala clan, the queen mother would have attacked Yi Xiu a long time ago. will not leave an edict after death, telling the emperor not to abolish the queen.
Just like the Queen Mother said, the mourning family is first the Queen Mother, the emperor's biological mother, the glory of the Wu Ya clan, and then the first emperor's concubine.
She was first the daughter-in-law of the royal family, and then the wife of the emperor and the spokesperson of the interests of her mother's family.
The Queen Mother has no self-personality, and the Queen Mother's requirements for her daughter-in-law are also based on the same standards.
This woman's daughter-in-law is a mother and a daughter, but she can't be a "person" with an independent personality.
And the reason why Zhen Huan fought against the emperor and fell in love with King Guojun was because she was a capitalized "person" with independent thinking ability, independent personality and self-esteem.
Zhen Huan is too "human" and "human", and she will inevitably be hated by the Queen Mother.
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