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No road is destined to be smooth sailing, so love yourself before doing so.
In this complex world, we should have the four abilities to live this life seriously: being at ease, knowing loneliness, remembering the original intention, and being open-minded.
Be a layman, don't listen, don't mention, don't watch, don't speak, love money, love yourself.
The disappearance of things, justified, the disappearance of relationships, for no reason, when they come, they are deep, and when they go, they are shallow, may we be able to catch the beauty and let go of the past.
The tortuous road always has its reason, I just hope that the last page is a thousand miles of flowers.
People are born to cry and only then learn to laugh. So sadness is an instinct, and laughter is an ability.
Winter is getting stronger, the snow has arrived, may the wind and snow know the heart, the year is warm, and all things are hidden in winter for spring.
People are different, some people can recharge you, chat with him, you will be resurrected with full blood, and you can wrestle with the world again, while some people will only consume electricity, you say a word to him, and you feel that you can live a few days less. Stay away from the people who consume you, and stay close to the people who recharge your batteries.
Only I know the days when I can't breathe, I know better than anyone else the way back, and a thousand words can't tell my sadness and helplessness, so let yourself slowly heal yourself.
Why are the street lamps all warm colors, probably to warm everyone who returns late.
First of all, congratulations, if you can realize that you can't let go, it's out of unwillingness. It means that you have gradually regained your personal sanity and walked out of this relationship. The essence of unwillingness is because you love yourself too much and admit that human nature is so selfish, and the fundamental reason for unwillingness is not how much you love him, but that you don't accept that you are despised.
Unwilling to accept that you are an unimportant person in the eyes of the other party, you are too lacking in affirmation, recognition, and demand, and you still have an inferiority complex in your bones. The solution is to do what you are good at and build self-confidence little by little. Recognize yourself, and slowly you will let go, and you will no longer need the affirmation and needs of others.
So, let's talk about it today, why do you feel unwilling after a breakup?