In the face of verbal attacks from others, really powerful people can often do the three nos and c

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

As a poor person, if you want to become rich, you don't have the courage to take risks, so if you want to get rich, the possibility is very small.

When it comes to Jews, almost everyone agrees that they have the advantage of intelligence.

According to the survey, Jews have won one-fifth of the world's Nobel Prizes, and their average IQ is 110!

And Jews are good at creating value, and Jews account for 60-100 of the world's wealthy businessmen in Forbes every year, which can be described as "talented and rich".

Jews account for nearly half of the world's richest entrepreneurs, and well-known financial investment firms such as Goldman Sachs and Salomon Brothers are all founded by Jews. 50% of the elite of Wall Street in the United States are Jewish.

As I read books about Jews, I realized that they were not born successful businessmen, but that they continued to learn from their failures and eventually succeeded. I carefully read the Talmud and found the secret of Jewish intelligence: in response to the verbal attacks of others, people who are really powerful can usually guarantee the following "three nos" and cannot be wrong;The people who can guarantee the "three noes" are undoubtedly all ruthless characters, don't underestimate them.

1. "No" gaffe

When someone attacks you verbally, it is usually a situation where you are honing your self-cultivation and whether you are a strong person in your heart, if you can ensure that you are calm and not shocked, it is good. After all, pretty people are all people with seven emotions and six desires, and it is unlikely that they will turn a blind eye to other people's verbal attacks, especially if this kind of verbal attacks are too harsh, vicious or do not have a minimum value, it will definitely cause everyone's obvious psychological reaction, and this kind of psychological reflection is usually reflected in the facial emotions, unless you have undergone professional practice, or have experienced many similar things, polished your thick skin, you can not be invisible.

In fact, it is all right to deal with other people's verbal attacks, whether it is a violent change in the heart or a change in the expression, and everyone does not have the luxury of guaranteeing a level of joy and anger. However, this kind of change should also have a degree, that is, at least ensure that you do not lose your temper, and you can't say that the other party is like a shrew scolding the street, and you will lose your temper because of this, and become more and more like the other party.

In response to the verbal attacks of others, your reactions and transformations should show your personal qualities and self-cultivation, and you should manipulate the degree within a certain range of emotions and reason, if you exceed this range, you will mainly manifest disorder, and the manifestation of this disorder is a gaffe. A person often loses his temper, usually in an irrational situation, and in the more serious process, a person will lose self-control and cause a catastrophe. Therefore, in response to other people's verbal attacks, the really ruthless characters can usually achieve without losing their temper, and in an Internet slang, it is "You were bitten by a dog, do you have to bite home".

Second, "no" gaffes

Hearing other people's verbal attacks, mentality and expression cause a change, with the main manifestation of gaffes, the following is generally all verbal counterattack and physical attack, and because it is a legal society, the relative physical attack is relatively less, the key or verbal counterattack.

Although it is routine to respond to the verbal attacks of others, in the case of a short temper, such counterattacks can easily occur in gaffes, in other words, if they speak too much, the result will only be to cause more violent disputes, causing disagreements and contradictions, which will not only hurt both the self and themselves.

Therefore, when dealing with other people's verbal attacks, you can verbally counterattack, but as much as possible in a situation where the mind is well controlled, the mental state is not out of balance, and the reason is sufficient, in fact, that kind of verbal counterattack is also the most effective and purposeful, and it is not easy to lose words.

3. "No" faux pas

In response to other people's verbal attacks, gaffes and gaffes are usually rude personal behaviors, and the replies on the limbs mentioned above are one, such as pushing, shoving, or spitting, which are also rude personal behaviors. In all fairness, if someone attacks you verbally, the highest level you can do is to fight back verbally, and if you make a rude act first, then it is very unacceptable, and it is very easy to arouse the anger of the other party and not want to stop with you.

Therefore, when dealing with other people's verbal attacks, from the perspective of moral bottom line, not being rude is the most important and important, if the consequences of gaffes and gaffes are very serious, then the adverse effects of faux pas will definitely be more serious.

All in all, in the social place, in order to correctly view the verbal attacks of others, we need to learn to manage our own mentality, not to do things irrationally, and to ensure that we do not lose our attitude, do not lose our words, and do not lose our manner, so that we can reduce the damage to ourselves to the highest extent, and ensure that the trivial things are turned into trivial matters, and even the "three nos" are turned into jade silk.

In the Talmud, there is a law that the Jews call the unchangeable, and that is the law of 22 78.

In nature, the ratio of nitrogen to oxygen is 22 78;

The ratio of the net weight of water to other chemical components in the body is 22 78;

In the total development of society, the proportion of the rich class and the common people is 22 78;

And the ratio of their capital is 78 22.

Hence the proverb that Jews do business:

The precious products are all prepared for the rich.

In short, the money is in the hands of the rich, so it is better to make the rich people's money when doing business.

On Fifth Avenue in Manhattan, USA, every Christmas shopping rush, most of the store customers are crowded, but there is a store, the door is locked, and there is only one consumer inside, and this store is the famous [Bi Jian].

Here, a dress sells for more than $2,000 and a bottle of perfume costs $1,500, so you only need to entertain one customer at a time.

The former ** Reagan of the United States, King Carlos of Spain, King Hussein of Jordan and some of their well-known stars have visited [Bi Jian], [Bi Jian] needs information confidentiality for any consumer, the corporate image of "Hao Shen", the secret operation and management system, and the luxury products **, which have enhanced the dominant position and brand image of [Bi Jian].

In fact, a closer look reveals that more and more smart people and businesses are targeting the 22 percent of the wealthy as their overall target.

The course consultants of the training school are willing to spend a lot of energy and release a lot of passion to attack the single "loose diamond consumer";

I used to operate a ready-to-eat bird's nest food category, and at the beginning I wanted to sell to the C-end customer market, but I found that the volume was relatively slow, so I changed my concept, looked for the B-end business, and relied on the way that the first-class business had already paved to sell the goods, and quickly opened the sales market.

If ordinary people want to complete the relocation in the circle, they must know a big truth:

Those who build cars make more money than those who build bicycles;

Those who do financial business also make more money than selling rice in shopping malls.

The fundamental reason for the difference in income from the same position depends on whether the customers of our business are rich or ordinary people

Whether you belong to a "High Value Zone" or a "Low Value Zone".

If you want to become what kind of person you want to become, you first need to get close to such a person, occupying a place is more important than working hard, and entering that highway, where there are many elites and gold is full of gold, you can accumulate capital more quickly, and the class will move more and more.

The fact that the Jews can still do so after thousands of years of wandering is enough to prove that their intelligence is worthy of learning and training.

Could it be that Jews are really synonymous with "capital"?How the hell did they do it?

First, the vast majority of Jews did not farm the land, so they were exposed only in financial and commercial services.

Second, they love to read articles, which is also a kind of cultural art, and they read a book called "Talmud" when they were young.

This "Talmud" is very worthy of continuous reading, especially as our people, Chinese culture and the Jewish nation are often compared together, aside from intelligence and cultivation, but when it comes to the temperament of the Chinese nation, our two Chinese nations can be said to complement each other, so the reading articles of this book seem to be even more valuable.

The Jewish Intelligence Book contains concise, clear and in-depth philosophical stories, concise and concise narrative design style, and all-round and detailed Jewish intelligence. Therefore, please put this book on the bed table in your bedroom and read it with the confidence that it will give you unexpected gains and even change the course of your life.

Prepare yourself well in advance and give yourself appreciation. As long as you have the ability and use value, success will come naturally.

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