I was beaten seven or eight times during pregnancy, and my husband poured cold water on me during confinement, and my husband forgive me, I will change it
The man knelt down in the house and begged the woman: I admit that I was wrong, can you forgive me?Would you please go home?
The woman replied emotionally: This is impossible, I can't give you another chance. If it weren't for the sake of the children, I would have left a long time ago. Leave my house now, we're going to get a divorce.
The man begged: Please think about it for the sake of the child and forgive me!I swear I'll turn my ways and be a good husband and father.
The woman replied angrily: You are really disappointing, your apologies and pleading are useless. You don't have the right to persuade me to go back now, and recall your previous attitude towards me!
What happened to the couple?Why is this wife so angry and refuses to forgive?Does a man have a chance to be forgiven by his wife?
The man who asked for help from the reporter was named Zhou Haipeng, and he sighed: "I really miss my wife. It was only after she left that I understood her importance, that she was a virtuous housewife. ”
Looking at the clothes in the closet every day, I feel like she's still around. I wish she could come home, and I beg you to help me and convince her to come back.
Zhou Haipeng suddenly knelt on the ground and begged the reporter for help. The reporter was taken aback and persuaded him to get up.
He said eagerly: "Please help me, as long as I can get my wife back, I will definitely treat her well and get rid of my bad habits." ”
The reporter asked Zhou Haipeng: "Why did your wife run away from home?"”
Zhou Haipeng paused and hesitantly replied to reporters: "Perhaps because of the family's economic situation, my wife and I have been married for three years, and our relationship has always been very good. ”
This time she left probably because we had quarreled a few times over the family's financial problems, and maybe she couldn't stand it anymore and went back to her parents' house. ”
In order to verify what Zhou Haipeng said, the reporter went to Zeng Xiaoying's mother's house with Zhou Haipeng and his mother.
Zeng Xiaoying's mother showed strong anger when she saw Zhou Haipeng coming.
She pointed at Zhou Haipeng and said, "You are so thick-skinned, and now you dare to bring someone to my daughter, how do you treat her?"”
The reporter quickly asked Zeng Xiaoying's mother: "What did Zhou Haipeng do to your daughter?"”
Zeng Xiaoying's mother angrily told reporters: "You don't know him, he's just a beast." When my daughter was confined, he actually picked up a basin of ice water and splashed it from head to toe, do you think he is still a person?At that time, the child was only three days old. ”
Zhou Haipeng hurriedly explained: "Did I quarrel with her at that time?"I was just impulsive, I didn't expect to splash it on her, I didn't mean to. ”
Zhou Haipeng's mother stood up and explained to her son: "It's normal for their husbands and wives to quarrel, it's all trivial, why make such a big fuss?"”
Zeng Xiaoying's mother said angrily: "You are also a parent, what would you do if your daughter was treated like this?"”
In the past, my daughter told me that her husband beat her, and we, as parents, also persuaded her, hoping that their family would be happy. It's normal for couples to have friction between them, just be patient. Zhou Haipeng's mother said.
But don't you know what your son has done to my daughter in the past three years?How many times has my daughter forgiven him, but has he changed every time?Ask yourselves. Zeng Xiaoying's mother was furious.
What's even more excessive is that since my daughter was pregnant, your son has been beating my daughter non-stop, more and more excessively. Ask your son if he hit my daughter seven or eight timesAnswer with a touch of conscience.
Zeng Xiaoying's father also said angrily: "If I knew that your family was like this, I wouldn't have let my daughter marry your son." Now you want to bring my daughter back, I tell you, go dream!I won't let her go back again. Your son is a piece of rubbish, ask yourself, has he fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband and father?”
The gentleman was always mingling with a group of friends, not doing his job, and often either drinking or playing cards. Every time he ran out of money, he asked my daughter for money, but he never made a real contribution at home. Did he ever raise his own children?
I've said it many times that if you don't leave, I'll kick you out right away.
When the reporter heard Zeng Xiaoying's parents accuse Zhou Haipeng so angrily, they realized that what Zhou Haipeng said was completely contrary to these accusations. However, surprisingly, Zhou Haipeng also admitted the mistakes he made.
Just when Zeng Xiaoying's parents were about to kick them out, Zeng Xiaoying herself appeared, and Zhou Haipeng immediately stepped forward to apologize to his wife.
Zhou Haipeng said: "Honey, I was really wrong, I will correct it, can you give me another chance?".”
Zeng Xiaoying replied: "How many times have I given you?"How many more times did my parents give you a chance?But every time you make a promise, the next day you still rude me, you never really want to change. I'm already disappointed in you. ”
Zhou Haipeng then said: "This time I am serious, I will really change. ”
The reporter asked, "Can't you forgive your husband?"Can't you think about it for the sake of your children?”
Zeng Xiaoying replied: "At the beginning, I put up with him for the sake of the child. But now you have told me to forgive him, and I would rather die than tolerate him again. ”
Ever since he poured cold water on me, I had to go to the hospital every day for check-ups. Now my body aches a lot and sometimes I get dizzy. It's all his doing.
The reporter asked: "Is it true that your husband said that you left because of your family's poverty?"”
Zeng Xiaoying stared at Zhou Haipeng, her expression full of disappointment: "I didn't dislike him because of my family's financial constraints, otherwise I wouldn't have chosen to spend three years with him." But in the past three years, he has been so indifferent to his children and me. ”
Knowing that his family's economy is tight, he always goes out to party with his so-called friends and doesn't return all night. He's either squandering his money out there or he's coming back and doing something to me.
Even if he has a little money, he never cares about the needs of his children. When the child is short of milk powder, he will not buy it, but he says that he has no money. Thanks to my family's help, otherwise my children and I don't know where we would be now.
There was no need for persuasion, I couldn't bear it anymore and decided to divorce him. ”
The reporter wanted to say something to Zeng Xiaoying, but looking at the firmness in Zhou Haipeng's eyes, no matter how much he persuaded him, it would be useless. He acquiesced to Zeng Xiaoying's request for divorce.
The fruits of man's behavior are sown by himself, he neglects to care for his family, idleness all day long, and has no enterprising spirit.
The wife who works hard at home and is beaten by her husband every day is intolerable and unforgivable for anyone.
As parents, you should set an example for your children and not let your children experience the same pain.
Support the woman's divorce, and also understand the decision of the woman's parents, so that the man can face the loneliness of old age alone.