Nowadays, some mothers really love to dress up their children, especially girls.
Pretty every dayThe clothes are not the same, all kindsHeadwear, necklaces, bags, and some children even doMakeup, paintedNail polish。Such children must have been praised often, and it seemed that their outward beauty had become their hallmark.
However, this is actually a red flag.
At this time, parents did not make the right guidanceIt's easy for a child to become vain or even superficial. He will regard the external beauty as very important, and will not care so much about the cultivation of other good qualities on the inside.
First of all, excessive grooming and excessive attention to appearance will affect children's schoolwork.
While the other child is paying attention to what the teacher is saying, he may be paying attention to who has a beautiful hairpin.
Wait until it's a little biggerOther students were concentrating on solving the problem, but he suddenly took out the mirror to see if there was any mess in his hairstyle todaySuch behavior obviously affects his learning effectiveness.
As your child grows up and moves into higher institutions, you'll find that the more modest the students are, the fresher their makeup looks. No one will feel that being beautiful is something more to be proud of than talent and cultivation.
Institutions of higher learning pay more attention to the academic achievement and overall quality of students, and they are not more valued just because a child is dressed well.
Some parents may say that being beautiful can make children more confident.
It is true that external beauty can give a child some self-confidence. But don't let beauty be their only confidence**.
The most beautiful state of a child isRefreshing, clean and vibrantThere is no need for overly ornate costumes, cumbersome decorations, open-brand bags and shoes.
Compared with external beauty, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's inner qualities and literacy.
We should encourage children to actively participate in various activities to nurture their hobbies and talents. We should instill in our children the right values and let them know that inner beauty is the most important thing.
In the process of children's growth, we should guide them to pay attention to their studies, pay attention to moral cultivation, and pay attention to caring and helping others. Only in this way can they truly become people with substance, rather than superficial people who only care about appearance.
So, don't dress your child up too pretty. Let them learn to cherish their inner beauty and learn to develop their talents and qualities. In this way, they can achieve more in the future on the road of life and can truly become a valuable person.