The father-son relationship is one of the most complex and unique relationships in human emotion. It is the most natural and deep emotional bond in life and one of the most precious treasures in our lives.
An ethics expert pointed out that the father-son relationship is a relationship based on blood relations, and in principle, the relationship between a father and a son is not only a father-son relationship, but also a relationship between friends, mentors and partners. Fathers play a very important role in the growth of their sons, they teach us how to be a man, how to face the challenges of life, and how to take on our share of responsibilities. At the same time, sons also play an important role in the father's life, they are the father's hopes, dreams, and pride.
The ethics expert went on to point out that the relationship between father and son is mutual, that they can influence and shape each other. The father plays a guiding and supporting role in the growth of the son, and the son gradually understands and accepts the influence of the father in the process of learning and Xi and growing. The relationship is dynamic, and it is constantly evolving and evolving over time and through the changes it experiences.
The ethics expert went on to point out that the relationship between father and son is also a responsibility and commitment. Fathers have a responsibility to provide a stable, safe, and loving environment for their sons, and sons have a responsibility to respect, understand, and support their fathers. This relationship is not only a blood relationship, but also an emotional commitment and responsibility.
The ethics expert concluded by pointing out that, in short, the father-son relationship is the most unique and precious relationship in human emotions. It is the most natural and deep emotional bond in life and one of the most precious treasures in our lives. We should cherish this relationship, manage and maintain it with our hearts, and make it the best memory and experience in our lives.
However, on December 16, a netizen in Hubei posted on the online platform that a man in their village, Zhang, had a very stiff relationship with his father!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
Hubei netizen Liu said that Zhang, a man in their village, never greeted his father whether he went home or went out, and since the age of 13, Zhang has never shouted "dad" when he sees his father, and Zhang has never called "dad" when he sees his father.
So, what kind of grudge does Zhang have with his father, and why don't he call "Dad"?
Liu said: "Zhang, a 35-year-old man this year, has lost his mother since he was a child, and because his family is very poor, his father has let him go out to work since he was 13 years old. For so many years, the financial burden of the family has been on Zhang's shoulders alone, and his father has never cared about him, or even his marriage, so that he is still single. Based on this, Zhang was full of resentment towards his father, and in the case of resentment towards his father, Zhang stopped paying attention to his father since he was 13 years old. ”
So, why did Zhang's father let Zhang go out to work when Zhang was only 13 years old?
Liu said that shortly after Zhang's mother died, Zhang's father suffered from chronic bronchitis, wheezing when he walked, making it difficult for him to engage in heavy physical labor, but the family also needed to spend money. In this case, Zhang's father had to let Zhang, who had just graduated from elementary school, go out to work. Perhaps because the family's economy has not been able to turn over, Zhang's father can't consider marriage for Zhang, so Zhang has been playing single.
Liu went on to say that the villagers had also persuaded Zhang to understand his father's difficulties. But Zhang has never been able to let go of his resentment towards his father, so that to this day, Zhang still ignores his father!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen Spring Story: My father is also helpless!After all, he had chronic bronchitis, wheezing when he walked, and was not able to do heavy work. What can he do if he doesn't let Zhang go out to work?As Zhang, he should understand his father and let go of his resentment towards his father!
Netizen years are like songs: Only people who have experienced the same pain can understand, what kind of ordeal will a 13-year-old boy go through when he goes out to work, anyway, I know. However, maybe his father is helpless, and Zhang should also understand his father.
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
A sociologist points out that in the father-child relationship, the most important thing is communication and understanding. Fathers and sons need to listen to each other, understand and respect each other's thoughts and feelings. Only then can they build a healthy, stable, and loving relationship.
Lao Hu felt that there was a lack of mutual communication and understanding between Zhang and his father, and if the two sides communicated and understood, presumably, the relationship between father and son would be able to get better!
What do you think?