More and more young people are choosing the Dink lifestyle. They believe that not having children gives them more freedom to pursue their careers and enjoy life without the stress of raising children. However, behind this seemingly beautiful choice, are there really no regrets and no costs?Is it really happy not to have children for the rest of your life?
Before we ask this question, let's take a look at the reasons for choosing Dink.
1.Pursue freedom and independence.
Not having children means less burden on the family and more freedom to spend their time and energy. Dinks can devote themselves to the careers and hobbies they love to the fullest and realize their personal value. At the same time, they can have more independent space and privacy, and they don't have to worry about children's problems and conflicts.
2.Financial freedom.
Raising a child requires huge financial costs, including education, medical care, life and other aspects. Dink families can save on this expense, which can improve their quality of life and achieve financial freedom. They can use this part of the funds for travel, investment, retirement, etc., to enrich their lives.
Dink wasn't flawless. Behind this beautiful appearance, there are many unknown regrets and costs.
1.Lack of family affection.
Children are the most precious bond between husband and wife, the hope and future of the family. Not having children means losing this precious affection to some extent. When they see their friends and relatives enjoying themselves as family, Dinks can feel lonely and lost.
2.Social pressure.
In our traditional concept, the birth of children is considered the responsibility of the family and the individual. Choosing a Dink is often met with doubts and pressure from family, relatives and society. This stress can have a negative impact on the minds of the Dinks, causing them to fall into self-doubt and conflict.
3.Pension issues.
Dinks who do not have children may have difficulties when facing the problem of providing for their old age. Although they can solve their retirement problems by saving, investing, and buying insurance, they may feel empty and helpless when it comes to psychological and spiritual companionship.
There are pros and cons to choosing a Dink's lifestyle. Before making this decision, we should fully understand the pros and cons, combine our actual situation, and make an informed choice. The definition of happiness varies from person to person, and we should respect the way each person pursues happiness.
Is it happy not to have children