In "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Wang Ruofu contributed a lot of wonderful performances, married to Sheng Hong but has been spoiled by the concubine and killed his wife, her character is rampant, there is no city government, she is short-tempered, and she is led by the nose.
Such a woman with many flaws and shortcomings is not liked by her mother-in-law and husband, and she is not valued by her mother-in-law, why is her children all taught very well?
A stark contrast in the play is the knee pads that Minglan gave to Changbai and Changfeng, Wang Ruofu and Lin Yushuang, which shows the difference between the two in educating their children.
Lin Yushuang's vision of knee pads is not high, he has always hoped that Changfeng can perform well, after being admitted to the Jinshi, he will no longer be bullied by Wang Ruofu in the future, Changfeng is disgusted with the coldness and soreness of knee pads, and he took a look at it, and threw it away, but he didn't feel inappropriate.
Mo Lan said even more bitterly that Minglan was a child, Lin Yushuang looked at the two children and ignored her heart, but completely pointed out what was wrong, she couldn't see Minglan in her heart, and even more, Lin Yushuang didn't have everyone's demeanor, and she didn't think about how to educate children, but just taught the children what she thought was the best, and didn't look at the truth and character behind things.
Wang Ruofu's performance was dazzling, she carefully picked up her knee pads and looked at them, and kept praising Minglan for her scheming. Rulan asked if this knee pad was just given to Changbai or Changfeng, knowing that they were all dissatisfied with Minglan and currying favor on both sides, and said it ugly.
Wang Ruofu directly criticized Rulan at this time, Minglan is good in this heart, how did you do it as a sister?I can't mention those concubines anymore, Minglan has been mature and calm in recent years, and even Sheng Hong has begun to have a good impression of Minglan , Rulan has to learn more from Minglan to be right.
This actually shows the difference between Wang Ruofu and Lin Yushuang, Wang Ruofu is generous and kind, she values the hearts of others, and unceremoniously says bad things about the children and points them out to criticize, Minglan is excellent in her opinion, and she should learn more from her.
Wang Ruofu herself is like this, at first she was helpless, Sheng Hong only thought about Lin Yushuang, and she was also tender to Lin Yushuang's pretentious appearance, unfortunately, this crime is extremely unbearable for ordinary people. Wang Ruofu has an upright personality and a good reputation, and he can't do those hypocrisy and cater at all.
Rulan has lived around Wang Ruofu since she was a child and is deeply influenced by him, so her personality is most like her mother, stubborn and stubborn, unwilling to bow her head, beaten by Sheng Hong and unwilling to pretend to be soft and cry like Mo Lan, and hold back her tears.
Rulan was not much better to Minglan at first, and asked Minglan to copy books, prepare gifts, and cook for herself, Rulan has always been very harsh about Minglan and didn't take Minglan seriously.
But then there was a little change, he was willing to speak for Minglan and was willing to tell Minglan what was on his mind, this change was due to Minglan herself, and there were also Wang Ruofuer's teachings.
Wang Ruofu's soft grinding and hard-heartedness, kindness and kindness were really inherited to Rulan, Wang Ruofu's girl betrayed her and was bought by Aunt Kang, causing her an almost heinous crime, but Wang Ruofu still couldn't bear to take someone's life, so Rulan rushed over desperately to protect her when the maid was beaten.
Hua Lan has raised Mrs. Sheng since she was a child, so she was greatly influenced by the old lady, Hua Lan is obviously quite deep compared with Rulan, both stable and heavy, she is her sister, and her family loves her growing children, but Hua Lan is not pampered, and treats the old lady and his wife Sheng Hong, and treats the brothers and sisters at home with the same kindness.
Many times when Wang Ruofu's thoughts were out of shape and his heart was painful, it was always Hua Lan who comforted him. Wang Ruofu couldn't understand anything, so Hua Lan analyzed it for her little by little, and when Wang Ruofu was angry, Hua Lan also prescribed the right medicine to make the family harmonious.
The reason why Hua Lan is so good, Mrs. Sheng is the foundation, Wang Ruofu dedicated her pure love, although she did not teach her daughter, but she has very real and strong feelings for Hua Lan in her heart. From the Yuan family's dowry bullying Hua Lan to Hua Lan's marriage into the Yuan family, life is not easy, although Wang Ruofu did not really help Hua Lan, but he was really anxious for Hua Lan.
Her selfless love can comfort Hua Lan's aggrieved heart, as a daughter, she may not hope how capable and good her mother is, as long as her mother truly loves herself, her children will be strong, brave and optimistic.
Needless to say, as the son-in-law of the family, he bears the weight of the rise of the Sheng family, is courteous, knowledgeable, enlightened at the age of 4 since childhood, and was taught by Sheng Hong, and invited Mr. to teach at home again, Changbai does not need Wang Ruofu to worry about anything at all, as Minglan said, Wang Ruofu always feels that the child he gave birth to is not like a child, just like a teacher, and he has to teach if he has nothing to do.
For Wang Ruofu, Changbai has a set of methods, respect and stay away, not blind or confused, Hai entered the door, Wang Ruofu wanted to put a score for his mother-in-law, but he didn't expect to be directly scolded back by Changbai.
Changbai has more respect for Wang Ruofu and is not close enough, the men are not very little influenced by their mothers, he does not have Changfeng to go around Lin Yushuang's room from time to time, Changfeng often saves Lin Yushuang and is bullied, Changbai doesn't have to think about whether Wang Ruofu will be bullied by Sheng Hong, since the Wang family is there, Sheng Hong's favor to Lin Yushuang can not really get along with Wang Ruofu.
Although Wang Ruofu was helpless against her son, she never thought of tossing the child, at most she complained to the servants around her about the child.
Hualan, Changbai, and Rulan all have their own styles, but they are soft-hearted and kind-hearted, which may be the life experience brought to them by Wang Ruofu's mother.
Wang Ruofu's various jumps up and down were not welcomed by Sheng Hong, and Mrs. Sheng was also speechless to her, she could not deal with it or not, and she could mention one or two when necessary, let alone mention it.
But Wang Ruofu is getting better and better day by day, her 3 children are all promising, Lin Yushuang went offline in advance and recognized her sister's face, Wang Ruofu cherishes everything in front of her more, which is inseparable from her kindness.