Yesterday I chatted with Chenchen's mother, and she said that she was worried about her children recently. It turned out that one day when Chenchen's mother went to the kindergarten to pick up Chenchen from school, she saw a relatively large boy passing by Chenchen from a distance, deliberately patted his head, and made a grimace in front of him. Mom thought that Chenchen would resist, but Chenchen just subconsciously took a step back and shrank back. When my mother saw this scene, she was not angry. I had never found out that my son was so timid and cowardly outside
In fact, to deal with the situation of a child's timidity, parents must first find the reason from themselves, and remember that parents are the first lecturers of their children. A child's character is inseparable from the role of the family environmentParents are like a mirror of their children, what kind of parents will raise what kind of children.
1. Parents are too strong
In a family, parents are too strong in front of their children, whether it is parent-child communication or the development trend of the child's personality, it is a great damageParents are overly aggressiveAlways thinking about how to control their children, any child's thoughts and behaviors need to be approved by him, and grow up in such an environmentChildren will be more and more reluctant to swallow their voices
2. Parents always use intimidation to teach their children
I'm sure many people have heard the saying that if you don't listen, you will get caught by the big bad wolf. Parents always use this intimidation to make their children obey their parents because they are afraid. Let the child be in a state of fear, and it is difficult for the child not to be timid when he grows up. There will also be fear when facing parents, which will lead to disharmony in parent-child communication between children and parents.
1. Encourage your child
In general, we should encourage children to be brave enough to try. Don't always attack your child's thoughts. Even if they don't succeed, they need incentives. Only in this way can children develop a character that is not afraid to do things. Children should be encouraged to communicate moreWhen you encounter difficulties, be brave enough to communicate with your parents and ask for help. Don't always bear it alone with your young shoulders。Give your child enough encouragement to have courage.
2. Positive guidance
To change the shy personality of the child,Parents cannot label their children as shyOtherwise, the child will feel that he is so shy that his character cannot be changed, and the smart way is to insist on positive guidancePraise and encourage your child appropriatelyAt the same time, make some small requests to the child, so that the child gradually becomes generous.
We need to be clearA child's life is not a parent's life. How they go is also their own decisionToo much intervention can make it seem that the child can only follow the words of the parents, as the advice of the parents, without having to force the child and without having to make decisions for the child.
In fact, the so-called cultural education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid incorrectness and reduce the chance of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important, orIt is dominated by the cultivation of personality and character。Therefore, it is very important to immediately shape children's good behavior Xi for children's growthDevelop good Xi,Children should learn to be confident and have a positive attitude, learn to control their emotions, and effectively deal with negative emotions in life.
There are no bad children in this world, as long as parents are not easy to teach, parents should pay more attention in the process of growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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