In life, we go through countless cycles of having and losing. There are things we never had, and there are things we once had and then lost. So, which is more regrettable about never having or having had?
We often have regrets about things we never had. We often fantasize about how much better our lives would be if we had things we never had. For example, someone who has never been in a relationship may feel like they're missing out on that sweet feeling;People who have never had long hair may envy girls who have long hair;People who have never been abroad may look forward to those beautiful landscapes. We often idealize things that we never have, thinking of them as perfect, and ignoring the difficulties and challenges involved.
However, having things can also bring us regrets. When we lose what we once had, we feel pain and remorse. We will reminisce about the good old days, the moments that made us happy. We ask ourselves why we didn't appreciate the opportunities we had at the time, why we didn't grasp what was ours. We often lose the things we once had before we realize their preciousness.
In my opinion, whether you have never had it or have it, you have its own unique regrets. However, we must not dwell on regrets, but face life positively. We should cherish everything we have in front of us, whether big or small, material or spiritual. We need to learn to appreciate the moment and enjoy every beautiful moment. At the same time, we should also be full of hope and expectation for the future, believing that the future will bring us more possession and beauty.