Whether women should use their resources and influence to help men, especially in the case of Tang Jialiang and Yang Ming's divorce, has sparked widespread discussion.
Many people think that it shouldn't, because they think that Tang Jialiang used his father's resources to help Yang Ming grow in his career, but when Yang Ming became strong and independent, he didn't cherish Tang Jialiang more, but considered divorce.
To a certain extent, many people believe that supporting men is the root cause of their turnaround, so there is a perception that men are unable to help.
However, if we take a closer look at Ma Yili's marriage articles, we can find that at the beginning, the woman actually helped the man to work hard for his career, succeed in the entertainment industry and obtain resources.
However, once the article became popular or unique, Ma Yili's demeanor waned, and her enthusiasm for the article seemed to be less than before.
However, Ma Yili's brilliance is that she was still able to regain the attention of the article, even if the marriage relationship did not last in the end, Ma Yili did not complain, and after the divorce, she worked hard to become a winner in life.
It's a pity that Tang Jialiang and Ma Yili are too far apart, and they may not be as brave as Ma Yili to admit defeat.
Now let's take a detailed look at Ma Yili's excellent evaluation of Tang Jialiang, maybe you will find that the same life challenges, different people, will really take different paths.
First of all, Ma Yili is attractive to her husband enough to make him change his mindTang Jialiang had no influence on Yang Ming.
When the article and Yao Di were rumored to have an affair, everyone thought that the article no longer loved Ma Yili, but was interesting to Yao Di. But later it turned out that Ma Yili forgave the article, and the article was willing to return to her.
In fact, no matter which man Ma Yili chooses and supports, they are actually controlled and influenced by Ma Yili.
Ma Yili's charm is still there, it's just that she made mistakes in her marriage. And Yang Ming was accused of having an affair with others, although Tang Jialiang didn't mind, but her tolerance was not appreciated by her husband.
Yang Ming has decided to divorce and is no longer willing to look back.
From the perspective of the impact on men, the men Ma Yili helped were under her control, and the men Tang Jialiang helped were already in a high position, and the other party thought that the marriage was at a loss, and even if he wanted to divorce, he couldn't get his wish.
Secondly, Ma Yili is willing to accept defeat and choose to separate without complaining if the marriage breaks down;And Tang Jialiang regards divorce as a sin.
In addition, when Ma Yili and the article got back together, their relationship actually couldn't be maintained, and in the end Ma Yili chose to break up amicably and blessed the article.
She never embarrassed the article, nor did she lead others to attack her husband. Ma Yili's marriage attitude is willing to admit failure, rather than complaining that the other party has caused the relationship to be untenable.
Tang Jialiang's behavior was a bit excessive, she couldn't continue to operate and maintain her marriage, but she said that ordinary divorce was swimming in sin, and imposed such a serious accusation on the other party, and for a long time people were charged with such a crime, no one wanted to live with her, because they couldn't bear such accusations.
What's more, people can choose a relaxed and happy relationship, and there is no need to choose a relationship that allows you to be deeply miserable.
Ma Yili's career has made great progress after marriage, and Tang Jialiang is likely to not be able to usher in the peak of his career.
In addition, after Ma Yili's divorce, because of her excellent acting skills, there are still many film and television drama resources waiting for her in the entertainment industry, and there will be many opportunities to show her brilliance in the future.
She chose to combine with the article because she hoped to run a marriage with the article and pursue happiness. Tang Jialiang's possession of Yang Ming was more out of vanity, or when he saw that others were handsome, he was eager to possess them.
Tang Jialiang mainly improved his image through Yang Ming's career, popularity and appearance, and won people's envy and praise, in fact, he was borrowing Yang Ming's resources.
If you get something satisfying in marriage, you will inevitably have something to give. It's a pity that after experiencing Yang Ming, it is difficult for Tang Jialiang to enjoy the feeling of being envied and praised anymore. Therefore, women's independence and self-improvement are more important.
In general, whether it is a man who needs help and is controlled, or a woman who is willing to support herself, may indicate that Ma Yili is stronger than Tang Jialiang.
In any case, whether a man can be helped or not ultimately depends on the woman's own strength.