Feng Xiaogang and his wife took their 17-year-old adopted daughter to study abroad, and for convenience, they bought a house directly in the United States, so that they could better accompany their daughter. But when his biological daughter Feng Siyuqu studied in the United States, Feng Xiaogang rarely appeared by his side except to pay tuition and living expenses.
Director Feng Xiaogang has always been a responsible and caring person, and he treats his adopted daughter like his own daughter, giving selfless love and care. But in his approach to the fact that his two daughters are studying abroad, we have to think: Can adopted daughters and biological daughters really be treated the same?Adopted daughter Xu Duo Since Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan married in 1999, they have been living a low-key and happy life. In the world of two people for many years, they did not choose to have children, but they interpreted the true meaning of love in another way. In 2007, Feng Xiaogang was diagnosed with hereditary vitiligo. Knowing that this disease could be passed on to the next generation, he made a decision full of love and responsibility to adopt a child after consulting with Xu Fan.
In the same year, they adopted a girl named Xu Duo. The husband and wife regard Xu Duo as their own and love each other. Xu Duo has had vision problems since he was a child and needs to wear glasses. Seeing their daughter with thick lenses, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan were distressed. For Xu Duo's eye health, Feng Xiaogang did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to hire a famous doctor for Xu Duo**. Now, Xu Duo has taken off her glasses and has become a slim girl.
In terms of education, Feng Xiaogang is also not stingy with Xu Duo. When Xu Duo was 17 years old, he decided to send her to study in the United States, hoping that she would receive a better education. In order to make Xu Duo's life in the United States more convenient, Feng Xiaogang also bought a house in the United States. This kind of dedication is just to let Xu Duo have a better future.
But the decision to send Xu Duo to study in the United States has attracted doubts. Some speculate that Feng Xiaogang immigrated to the United States. In the face of such rumors, Feng Xiaogang responded calmly: "I am worried that my child will not be able to adapt to studying in the United States, so Xu Fan and I decided to go to the United States to accompany our child for a period of time, and there are also projects to negotiate during this time." Such a response has made those skeptical voices self-defeating.
When attending the event, Feng Xiaogang always did not forget to bring Xu Duo. At the Huabiao Award ceremony, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Duo took a group photo with many popular stars. Xu Duo, who stands in the C position, is the most precious treasure in Feng Xiaogang's heart. This love and care is revealed from the details, which makes people feel a strong father's love.
On the special day of Father's Day, Feng Xiaogang's daughter Xu Duo posted a photo with her father on social platforms, with the caption: "Dad, Happy Father's Day!."”
This was originally a warm blessing, but some netizens left messages below, saying, "He is not your father, and your mother is not your mother." In the face of such remarks, Xu Duo responded with a joking: "You are so lenient" directly made netizens speechless.
It can be seen from ** that there are indeed some similarities between Xu Duo and Feng Xiaogang. Whether they are biological father and daughter or not, the fact that they are already father and daughter cannot be changed. Therefore, I also hope that netizens will not pay too much attention to this issue, because every mention is equivalent to uncovering Xu Duo's scars.
But in fact, almost every time Xu Duo releases news, there will be some netizens who talk about their life experience. For such a controversy, Xu Duo's response every time is very educated. She said: "Whether she is biological or not, she will love her parents very much, and at the same time, they are very good to me", such a response not only shows her kindness and respect, but also proves that Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan have raised her well.
In fact, Feng Xiaogang and his wife's education of Xu Duo is not only reflected in their attitude towards netizens' messages, they have always been leading by example and educating her on how to be a kind and educated person. In the family, they gave Xu Duo enough love and support, allowing her to grow up in a warm environment. At the same time, they also focus on cultivating Xu Duo's independence and autonomy, so that she can learn to think independently and solve problems.
In this loving family, Xu Duo was able to grow up healthily. Her performance allows us to see the success of Feng Xiaogang's education, and also shows us how a kind and educated girl can show tenacity and courage in the face of difficulties. I hope that netizens can respect Xu Duo and her family, don't interfere too much in their lives, and let them continue to grow in love and care. biological daughter Feng Siyu, Feng Xiaogang has an adopted daughter, but also a biological daughter, Feng Siyu, a child born to his ex-wife Zhang Di.
In 1990, Zhang Di gave birth to her daughter Feng Siyu. However, instead of joy, the arrival of this new life brought great anxiety. Feng Siyu was diagnosed with congenital cleft lip and palate, and the news was undoubtedly a heavy blow to the young parents. The doctor persuaded them to give up the baby and have a healthy baby. But Feng Xiaogang resolutely refused, he was determined to help his daughter take care of the disease no matter how much it cost.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang's career was so calm that there was no wave. In order to raise money for his daughter's surgery, he had to work hard outside. Fortunately, he got acquainted with Wang Shuo, a bigwig in the Beijing circle, and his career gradually improved. He began to shoot some works, and gradually established his status as a famous director in the circle. Finally, when Feng Siyu was 1 and a half years old, Feng Xiaogang raised hundreds of thousands of surgical fees and successfully operated on his daughter. The operation was very successful, and Feng Siyu's cleft lip and palate was able to **.
In this process, Feng Xiaogang often buys some strange toys from all over the country, hoping that through these, he can divert his daughter's attention and cut off the torture of illness. And the little Feng Siyu felt the care and love of his father Feng Xiaogang. But the good times didn't last long, when Feng Siyu was nine years old, Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di divorced because of emotional breakdown. Feng Siyu, who was only nine years old, couldn't understand why his father, who had always loved him, abandoned him and his mother, and even didn't listen to his grandmother's persuasion at all, so that he had infinite hatred for his father at a young age.
After her parents divorced, Feng Siyu has been living an ordinary life with her mother. No one around him knew that Feng Siyu's father was the great director Feng Xiaogang. It wasn't until Feng Siyu's 18-year-old ** ceremony that everything changed subtly. Feng Siyu didn't tell Feng Xiaogang about his ** ceremony.
Feng Xiaogang, who learned about this from a friend, was originally going to be invited to a city in the south to participate in the publicity activities of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", but for the sake of his daughter Siyu, Feng Xiaogang deliberately set aside a day to attend his daughter's ** ceremony at school. **After the ceremony, the principal saw that Feng Xiaogang's speech was so wonderful and full of sincerity, and immediately asked for Director Feng's speech and handed it over to the school library for collection. This incident also made Feng Siyu begin to change his opinion of his father.
Later, Feng Xiaogang said that he would support his daughter's decision to study in the United States, and seeing his father who loved him as always, Feng Siyu was slowly relieved from the bottom of his heart. And Feng Siyu is talented, he was first admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with excellent grades, and then went to New York University to major in directing, which can be regarded as inheriting his father's business.
Previously, Feng Xiaogang rarely appeared in the public eye with his daughter Feng Siyu. It can be seen from Feng Siyu's appearance that she exudes youthful vitality, and like her father, there is a fresh breath between her eyebrows. In fact, we can see that Feng Xiaogang's love for his daughter has never changed, even in the face of great difficulties and setbacks, he has always stuck to his daughter's side. The difference between treating biological daughters and adopted daughters.
As a famous director, Feng Xiaogang has always been compared by the outside world on the issue of treating his biological daughter and adopted daughter. It is rumored that he has a different attitude towards his biological daughter Feng Siyu and adopted daughter Xu Duo, and seems to be more biased towards Xu Duo, making people feel that he has neglected his care for Feng Siyu. However, this is not the case.
In order to treat Feng Siyu's illness, Feng Xiaogang raised money at all costs and resolutely decided to undergo a risky operation. This is enough to see his deep love and concern for his daughter. Although because of the problems in his marriage with his ex-wife, the custody of his daughter is not in his hands, and he lacks his daughter emotionally, it does not mean that he ignores Feng Siyu.
From his daughter's speech to supporting his daughter to study abroad, he showed his attention and care for Feng Siyu. Later, as Feng Siyu gradually grew up, she naturally no longer relied too much on her father. As for the adopted daughter Xu Duo, because she is much younger than Feng Siyu, she has lived by Feng Xiaogang's side since she was a child, and Feng Xiaogang has always regarded her as her own daughter.
Not only to give her the best financial support, but also to give her the best conditions educationally. This may be seen as a kind of compensation for Feng Xiaogang's lack of love for Feng Siyu. Because of his divorce from his mother, Feng Siyu always had a grudge against Feng Xiaogang, and it was not until later that he slowly let go.
During this time, Feng Xiaogang has always regretted the loss of his daughter's father's love. As a result, he may turn this regret into a lot of financial and educational investments. In short, Feng Xiaogang's love for his two daughters is sincere. Although the rumors and evaluations from the outside world made him bear some misunderstandings and regrets, he proved his deep affection for his daughters with his actions. It can be seen from the conclusion that whether it is a biological daughter or an adopted daughter, Feng Xiaogang is extremely caring. He did everything he could to give his two daughters the best of everything, and there was no absolute bias. So for the life of Feng Xiaogang's family, I hope everyone can give them enough space.
Don't over-read some of the rumors out there, because sometimes the truth is not what the naked eye sees. The report only says some things one-sidedly, but the truth must be grasped from the overall situation!