Have you ever found a problem, the more cold you get along with people, the more people will stay away from you. This is the point of view put forward by Dong Qing in a public speech, which has aroused heated discussions among the majority of netizens.
First of all, we need to understand that coldness is not a personality trait to be admired. In interpersonal interactions, what we need is understanding and respect, not indifference and detachment. A cold attitude can often make people feel uncomfortable and even misunderstood. People may think that you are an unapproachable person or that you have reservations about them, which can undoubtedly have a negative impact on relationships.
Secondly, a cold attitude may make you miss out on a lot of opportunities. In the workplace, you need teamwork and good interpersonal relationships, and these require you to show affability and openness. If you always keep a cold attitude, then you may lose a lot of opportunities for cooperation, and even affect your career development.
So, how can we avoid the mistake of high cold?Dong Qing gave some suggestions. First, we need to learn to understand and respect others. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and we can't prejudicate them because they're different from us. Second, we need to learn to express our emotions. Communication is the foundation of building relationships, and we need to express our thoughts and feelings through effective communication. Finally, we need to learn to accept ourselves. Everyone is unique, and we can't deny ourselves just because of what others say.
Overall, being cold is not an ideal way to interact. We need to learn to understand and respect others, and build and maintain relationships through effective communication. Only in this way can we succeed in interpersonal interactions.