"Dad, I got 100 points on the exam!Xiao Ming happily ran to his father's side to report the good news. Dad smiled and hugged Xiao Ming and kissed him on the cheek: "Good job, I'm proud of you!."”
Dad, I want to learn to swim. The little girl Xiaoli took her father's hand and said. Dad nodded: "Okay, Dad will take you to school." ”
Dad, I had a problem at school today and I don't know what to do. The little boy Xiao Gang said with a sad face. Dad patiently listened to Xiaogang's story, and then explained the solution to him.
These are common scenes in life, and the father's company and encouragement bring unlimited motivation and confidence to the children. Fathers play an important role in the growth of children, and fathers are not absent and less, and have the following help for children's growth:
1.Emotional attachment.
Children need the love and care of their parents from birth, and the companionship and love of their fathers can make children feel a sense of security and belonging, and establish attachment to their fathers. This attachment can stay with the child throughout his or her life, affecting the child's mental health and social resilience.
2.Gender identity.
The father is the child's first male role model, and the child learns from the father Xi male mannerisms, ways of thinking, and values. The role model of fathers can help children establish a correct gender identity and form healthy psychology and behavior.
3.Character and ability development.
Fathers can cultivate their children's independence, self-confidence, sense of responsibility, and cooperative spirit by accompanying them to play, do housework, and participate in outdoor activities. Father's encouragement and support can also stimulate children's interests and hobbies and help children develop their potential.
4.Shaping of outlook on life and values.
Fathers can pass on the correct outlook on life and values to their children through communication and communication. A father's words and deeds can help children form a positive outlook on life and establish a correct value orientation.
Of course, the absence of a father can also have a detrimental effect on the child's development. Studies have shown that children who lack a father are more likely to have emotional problems, behavioral problems, and Xi problems.
Therefore, fathers should try to avoid absence, accompany their children more, and escort their children's growth. What can a father do?
Spend more time with your children. Fathers can take some time out of their day to spend time with their children, playing, chatting, doing housework, etc.
Take care of your child. Fathers should care about their children's academic Xi, life, psychology and other aspects, and give their children help and support in a timely manner.
Be a role model for your children. Fathers should lead by example and set a good example for their children.
The companionship and love of a father is an indispensable nutrient for a child's growth. Let's work together so that every child can have a happy childhood where "fathers are not lacking".
The father is the "guardian saint" of the child, and the father's love is the most solid backing for the child's growth. Let us work together so that every child can feel the love of their father and grow up healthy and happy.