As soon as Baochen returned home, it was already past five o'clock in the afternoon, and the streets were already brightly lit, so he decided to ask his wife Yinghua and two sons out for dinner. Baochen, who has been away for a long time, has no pressure and tiredness during eating, and he never dares to order expensive dishes even when he eats out. So he just ordered a bowl of beef noodles for 8 yuan and was ready to take it home to his mother, the old lady. However, when he told Yinghua about this decision, it sparked an argument.
Baochen felt that bringing a bowl of noodles to his mother was not a big deal, after all, she was now helping to take care of the children at other people's homes to earn money, and she should also need to make a light meal. However, Yinghua was dissatisfied with this, believing that Baochen's mother had been living together, which would cause them a lot of inconvenience and trouble. The argument caused Yinghua to leave the table.
For the sake of the children's happiness, Baochen decided to swallow his anger and stop arguing with Yinghua. He hurriedly persuaded the children to continue eating, and told them to let their grandmother enjoy the bowl of noodles when they got home. Eventually, the family returned home. Fortunately, Baochen's mother happened to arrive home, and when she saw the bowl of noodles in front of her son, she happily asked, "Where is Yinghua?" The grandson replied, "Mom went for a walk with her classmates." In order not to worry his mother, Baochen hurriedly explained. The children sit honestlySofaWatching TV, Baochen sighed unwillingly, realizing that the relationship between his son and daughter-in-law was becoming more and more strained.
Baochen did his best to maintain the harmony of the family, and he said to his mother: "Mom, if you feel too tired, don't help others take care of the children anymore. You are as comfortable as you are in our hometown, and I can make a few more trips. After eating, my mother sorted out the dishes and chopsticks, and then took out a month's salary and gave it to Baochen. Baochen wanted to keep the money for his mother to spend, but his mother insisted that he take it, she said: "I don't spend it myself, your family needs to spend it, you can take it!" Baochen had no choice but to take the money and remind his mother to pay attention to her body and not to exhaust herself.
Yinghua felt lost, she went to her best friend for comfort, but was scolded by her friend. Depressed, she had no choice but to return to her home. When she was changing her shoes at the door, Baochen's mother walked up to her, handed her a sum of money and said, "Yinghua is back, this is the first month's salary, you can take it." Yinghua took the money and counted it, accepted it, and told her mother that she would go to the night shift in the evening. Baochen's mother knew the reason why her daughter-in-law didn't like living here, and she understood that she couldn't meet her daughter-in-law's expectations, so she had to live here in order for the family to live a good life. When she saw her two grandsons accompanying Yinghua through confinement, she understood that her efforts did not make her daughter-in-law grateful to her. In order to make do, she had toNot thereThe grandson has a wire bed in his room as her sleeping place, and she needs to take care of the children and do the housework by herself, but she can't get the smile and gratitude of her daughter-in-law.
The son of a long-distance driver perennialNot therehome, daughter-in-law in the factory also caused some small turmoil. This thing makes severalWomenFind the door and scold. Ask the relatives in the factory, they just tell the old lady to keep an eye on her daughter-in-law. In order to solve the problem, the old lady sent her own hand-ground flour to her relatives' house many times, and finally the relatives said: "Some people in the workshop often have ambiguous affairs with young men, they will give themselves massages, and every time someone asks her out, she will always go!" We all feel embarrassed because she is your daughter-in-law, and we are embarrassed to mention it to you. We are worried that the situation will get worse, so we tell you to be optimistic about your daughter-in-law. The old lady felt a chord in her heart, and she knew that she had to protect the happiness of her son and grandson, so she chose to keep it a secret.
No matter how the daughter-in-law treats her, the old lady has to keep the house. Every morning, she gets up at six o'clock to make her family's breakfast, and then goes to her employer's house at half past seven to take care of the children. Although she was very busy during the day, she didn't dare to disturb her daughter-in-law when she came home at night. In order to maintain the harmony of the family, the old lady found a job taking care of the children during the day, so that she could leave the house during the day and come back at night without arguing with each other. She understood that her daughter-in-law did not want her to live at home, so she only made a wire bed in her grandson's room to sleep on and no longer disturbed her daughter-in-law. She took on all the housework and childcare responsibilities, but she couldn't get the smile and gratitude of her daughter-in-law.
Although living as a familylifeIt was difficult, but in order to make her son and grandson live a good life, the old lady endured a lot of difficulties and grievances. She understands that she will not be able to meet her daughter-in-law's expectations, but she is willing to endure everything for the sake of family harmony. She knows that it is difficult to live with her son, but as long as she can be with her son, she is willing to give everything.
Everyone in this family has their own difficulties and grievances, but they all work hard for the happiness of the family. They endure hardships and grievances, but they also hope for a better life. In this family, the old lady is a person who gives silently, she takes on a lot of responsibilities for the harmony of the family, but she is not understood and respected enough. This story tells us that the dedication and efforts of everyone in the family are for the happiness of the family, and we should cherish and appreciate the efforts of our family members.