Wen Wan said in a mood**All works are original"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water;After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. This may seem like a joke, but it actually says what enlightenment is all about:They are ordinary and extraordinary, even if they do ordinary things, they also exude a different light. So, what are the characteristics of a truly enlightened person?Today, I, the "life coach", will reveal the secret to you!1. Inner peace and unmoved by external objects"If you are not indifferent, you will not be ambitious, and if you are not quiet, you will not be far-reaching. "Enlightened people are as calm as water, not burdened by fame and fortune, and not moved by external objects. They understand the true meaning of life and know that the pursuit of inner peace and contentment is the true happiness. My friend Li Mu is such a person. He never pursues material enjoyment, but likes piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and tastes tea and poetry. "These activities have given me real peace and contentment," he said. ”2. Profound wisdom and insight into the world"The insight of the world is all knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. "Enlightened people have deep wisdom and keen insight. They are able to see through the nature of the world and understand the complexity and diversity of human nature. One of my relatives is such a person. He has been in the mall for many years and has experienced countless ups and downs. Whenever he encounters difficulties and setbacks, he is always able to calmly analyze the situation and find the best solution to the problem. "The essence of business is trust and cooperation between people," he said. This wisdom has allowed him to be invincible in the mall.
3. Be consistent with words and deeds"Words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful. "Enlightened people are consistent with their words and deeds. They don't go duplicitous, and they don't disobey each other. They pay attention to integrity and principles in everything they do. My good friend Wang Han is such a person. From an early age, he was strictly educated by his family and knew the importance of integrity. Whether he treats friends or work partners, he always keeps his promises and earns everyone's respect and trust.
Fourth, be compassionate and make good connections"Bodhi has no tree, and the mirror is not a platform. There was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust. "Enlightened people have compassion and make good connections. They understand the hardships and helplessness of life, so they are more willing to help others out of difficult situations. One of my relatives is such a person. He is a devout Buddhist and regularly participates in various charity events. "To help others is to help yourself," he said. This spirit of compassion has allowed him to reap countless touches and beauty in his life. Fifth, surpass oneself and pursue a higher realm"Tianxingjian, a gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement. "Enlightened people are constantly transcending themselves and seeking higher realms. They are not satisfied with the status quo and are constantly pushing their limits. My friend Zhang Ming is one such person. Since he was a child, he has loved sports and challenging himself. Whether it's extreme sports such as mountaineering, diving or rock climbing, he dares to try and enjoys it. "Challenging myself has made me feel the infinite possibilities of life," he says. This spirit of courage to surpass himself allows him to continue to create miracles and break through himself in life.
In short, "a truly enlightened person has five qualities that ordinary people cannot match." These qualities include peace of mind, deep wisdom, consistency between words and deeds, compassion, and self-transcendence. These traits allow them to shine differently in life, and become the goal of our learning and pursuit. Of course, enlightenment does not happen overnight, and things need to be constantly practiced and honed in order to reach a higher state. Therefore, we must maintain a humble and reverent attitude and continue to learn, practice and surpass ourselves in order to gradually move towards the path of enlightenment.