Professor Zheng Bingwen, from the University of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, put forward a seemingly simple but controversial suggestion for young people to have children, that is, young people can turn to relatives when they have difficulties raising a baby. However, this proposal is seen by many as unrealistic and detached"Gone with the Wind"Discuss. This article will take a different look at the issue, get an in-depth look at the reasons behind it, and offer some personal insights. First, let's analyze why young people are reluctant to turn to relatives for help.
As the new generation of post-00s gradually becomes young people, they pay more attention to self-independence and personality development. Unlike the previous generation, they are more inclined to remain estranged from their relatives, and some are even skeptical about their kinship. This phenomenon reflects a change in young people's attitudes towards their own lives and relationships. They are more focused on relationships with neighbors, friends, and social circles of their choice, rather than simply relying on family ties.
In addition, with the development of society, the process of urbanization is accelerating, and many young people choose to leave their hometowns and relatives. As a result, the distance between them and their relatives has also led to further estrangement. Long periods of separation and infrequent interaction make young people feel alienated from their relatives and are therefore less willing to turn to them for help.
Professor Cheng Bingwen's suggestion to seek help from relatives may be out of consideration for traditional family values. In the past, kinship was considered crucial, and relatives would support each other and overcome life's difficulties together. However, in today's social context, this relationship has gradually changed.
Today's relatives are often also burdened with their own family burdens, they have their own things to deal with, and they are unable to fully care for the young child. And, as financial pressures mount, relatives may not have the resources to support young people raising babies. Therefore, seeking help from relatives may not solve the problem of raising young people, but may instead place a greater burden on relatives.
Young people have the right and freedom to choose their own lifestyle and conception of childbearing. They may have more pursuit of their careers, personal growth, and free time, putting off childbearing until a more opportune time. In addition, young people are skeptical about their ability to provide adequate care and educational resources, and they do not want to pass this responsibility on to their relatives, but want to be able to take care of their children.
In short, Professor Zheng Bingwen proposed"Ask relatives for help"It may not be a viable solution for young people. Young people are more focused on personal choice and self-development, and are distantly associated with relatives, who may not be able to afford the burden of parenting. Therefore, when promoting young people to increase their desire to have children, it is necessary to take into account their actual situation and needs more comprehensively.
From a personal point of view, I also agree with the view that young people are reluctant to turn to relatives for help. In modern society, the independent and autonomous development of the individual is very important. Young people have the right to choose their own lifestyle and conception of childbearing, and should decide whether to have children according to their own situation and life preparations. Kinship, while important, should not be a reason to force young people to have children.
In addition, I agree that alienation and distrust between relatives are an important reason why young people are reluctant to seek help from relatives. In modern society, people prefer to rely on their own abilities and resources rather than relying on relatives for support. This does not mean that kinship is not important, but when choosing to ask for help, we are more inclined to choose people with whom we have a closer relationship, such as friends, neighbors, etc.
In summary, young people's choices and decisions should be respected and understood. When it comes to fertility issues, we need to pay more attention to the realities and needs of young people, and provide more reasonable advice and support, rather than simply passing the blame and difficulties onto relatives. It is only through the continuous promotion of quality education and the improvement of living conditions that young people's willingness to have children can be increased. In order to solve the problem of student education, we need to integrate economic, social and personal factors to promote comprehensive and healthy population development.