1. Enjoy the "garbage time" in your life.
In the past, I used to think that doing laundry, walking, eating, and cooking were a waste of time, so I often used to use my phone to swipe the information stream or listen to songs while doing these things.
Now I understand that people live to be able to do these chores in life leisurely, rather than squeezing in time to "enrich themselves".
2. Choice is more important than effort, but "choice" itself is a skill that requires a lot of practice and a lot of effort to hone.
3, success can not be replicated, many successful people in addition to personal ability, basically are stepping on the dividends of the times, by chance or inevitably get the opportunity, you to imitate the fighter has been lost, don't believe those bosses, "as long as you work as hard as him, you will be the same as him", rest assured, you can't succeed.
4. The injury of many organs of the human body is irreversible after exceeding a limit, such as the eyes are too false is true myopia, the inflammation of the teeth and gums is too long, it will definitely make you have a toothache and extract teeth, and the fatty liver is cirrhosis of the liver for too long, and the initial stage of these diseases is reversible.
5. Don't take care of other people's affairs easily, be indifferent to the world, the times have changed, and you will find life much easier if you relax your mind.
The economy is constantly developing, and the class is becoming more and more solidified, everyone used to be almost the same, they are all poor, they can be very familiar with the world, and now people have less and less such thoughts, people used to look at the person's character, and now people look at the person's economic strength, whether they are rich or poor, and then decide what attitude they use to treat.
6. Don't believe the pie drawn by the leader, the reason why the pie is drawn is because he does not have the ability to give you the real pie.
7. Reduce the negative impact of other people's language behaviors on yourself. Due to the complexity of society, it is normal to encounter a lot of strange people or things.
In the face of other people's aggressive language or behavior, try not to get angry when there is no direct damage to yourself, anger will only consume yourself, and it is irrational to waste your own emotional, time, and energy for these people.
8. Under the premise of energy and ability, try to get involved in some fields that can bring economic income, and have one more choice to survive in the workplace
9. Unless the other party takes the initiative to ask for advice, don't point anything to others casually. It doesn't matter if you're really better than the other person, or if you just think you're better than the other person.
10. Each person's values are different, and the formation of values is related to the growth environment;For example, some people think that a cup of Starbucks coffee is expensive, some people think it is normal, and some people think it is cheap. Some people think that earning 100 million is a small goal, and some people feel that they will never be able to do it. Everyone will have a different point of view on the same thing, and know how to think from the perspective of others.
11. Don't always think that everything will have a perfect answer, a perfect solution, or a perfect route of effort, and then blindly think that you must find this perfect route and go down a road, and always be afraid that what you choose is not the best one, once you find that there seems to be a better route, but you miss the best opportunity, you will be discouraged and feel that everything is going to be over.
12. Don't be inexplicably proud because you are in a profession that no one forces you to do, and feel aggrieved when no one pays attention to it.
13. Why do rich people make more and more money?Because I always think about solving problems for everyone, and I always think about what value I bring to others. There are 2 ways to make money in the world.
First, we helped the customer solve the problem, and the customer gave us money. The second is to think about how to cheat customers out of their pockets.
14. Don't believe the boss who said, you are still young, you are only 25 years old, you still have 35 years of opportunity to achieve yourself, the real situation, you only have 10 years left, and if there is no substantial improvement over 35 years old, you will face a very serious career crisis. So, come across a better opportunity and don't hesitate.
15. Don't try to change others, learn to quickly identify which people are the same kind as you and which are not.
Don't waste your time on people who are not my kind, the development of technology and the Internet has not only not narrowed the distance between people, but has narrowed the distance. Because of the precise delivery of big data, people believe that they are right, make egoism more solid, and become more and more isolated between people, groups of people, and very serious divisions.
16, what can win back a city when you fall out of love is always your decisive disappearance and disconnection. Whether it's for a later reunion or something else. Only if you have the courage to put yourself to death and live after you can you have the possibility of resurrection.
But the sad thing is that the setting of human nature is to be afraid of losing, so when the other party mentions breaking up, you will instinctively redeem it, and the more you try to redeem it, the more the other party hides back, and you feel that the more you love him, and you can't live without him. In fact, none of this is true.
17, the love field and the workplace are the least need for honest people, honest people in the love field are easy to become pick-up heroes, easy to become tool people in the workplace, learn to invite credit, socialize, you will be promoted faster.
18, if you don't have a dream, what is the difference between being a man and salted fish?In fact, most people really don't have any dreams, and they can't blame him. But if you are not happy, what is the difference between it and salted fish?