My friend's child is now in the grade, and my child's grades can't go up, so my friend asked me what the situation wasWhen I interviewed his child, I had the following points:
1. I don't have a long memory in learning, and I forget it when I see it.
Children in the fourth grade may not know as many words as the second grade. said that children have poor memory, except for learning, there is no difference between them and Xueba in other aspects. The vocabulary list at the back of the textbook only memorizes one word and does nothing else, and almost 50% of them do not recognize. It took about 20 minutes to take him to read well, the next 40 minutes for him to memorize and try dictation, and it took nearly an hour before and after, and he could only write nearly 40% of a dozen words. It's not a memory problem, but what causes children to not remember?I don't want to remember it. It's always hard to start and don't put your mind into words wholeheartedly. What to do?Separate memories. A dozen words, memorized in 3 times, dictated in 3 times, can be completed. It's not that I can't remember, it's that I feel a lot of money and don't want to go.
2. Love to talk back to your parents and talk about conditions.
I have come into contact with many children with poor grades, and they all have one thing in common: to talk about conditions. Before I started to execute the assigned task, I asked if I didn't need to do anything else after I completed itIf it doesn't work with him, half-heartedly.
3. Lack of concentration.
Even if this kind of child is tutored by his parents, he has not improved. Because you're explaining to him, his head is thinking about other things, and a lot of times you're explaining, and he's looking into the distance and smirking. When this kind of child usually does homework, parents should pay attention to giving him a quiet and concise environment. Quietness can reduce noise distractions, and the simple environment is not easy to cause him to be distracted, so as to slowly cultivate children's concentration.
4. Poor learning attitude, indifferent to grades.
The child does not know that learning is his own business, nor does he understand that his current task is to study, and it does not matter about grades. Even if you are the first to last, you don't feel embarrassed, and you live every day. A child with a bad attitude is difficult to change for a while, and parents should not try to change him by reasoning. Personal experience is to impress him with examples from life, which is much more effective than reasoning.
There are many reasons why a child's grades cannot go up, but if the above points can be corrected, the child's grades will not be bad. What do you think?