A coquettish woman is the best!This phrase is very popular on the Internet, and it seems that everyone agrees with this statement. Coquettishness can indeed allow women to be cared for by men, because most men eat soft rather than hard, especially for delicate and weak women. If a woman is homeless, she can find relatives to spoil her, and she is likely to be taken in by the other party, and even if the other person has just gotten married, she can find a place to take refuge without ending up on the streets.
There was a woman who was very good at using the art of coquettishness. She was working in the field and could not go home for the Chinese New Year during the Chinese New Year. So she found her cousin and told her that she had nowhere to spend the New Year, but she wanted to find a place to rely on, so she coquettishly begged her cousin, and the cousin agreed to let her spend the New Year in her own home.
The woman used coquettish means to successfully stay at her sister's house who had just gotten married, but she was not satisfied with the status quo, and even put forward new requirements to her brother-in-law: "Brother-in-law, I want to sleep in the master bedroom, I like to sleep in the big bed room, the other rooms are not suitable for me, and I don't like the decoration of the room." I see that your wedding room is very well decorated, so I want to sleep in the wedding room. ”
In the face of her cousin's request, her sister did not express her position, and her brother-in-law did not dare to make a decision easily. After all, this is his wife's cousin, not his own. Under normal circumstances, if it is your cousin, you can refuse directly, but if it is your wife's cousin, you need to be in control of proportion, take care of your wife's face, and you can't refuse directly.
The man was in a difficult situation and had to tell his wife about this thorny problem. The wife approached her cousin and persuaded her not to live in the master bedroom, after all, they had just gotten married and were still on their honeymoon. My sister said to my cousin, "We just got married, and we are enjoying the sweet time of the two of us. The marriage bed is our private territory, and we can't just let people live in it, and the master bedroom can't be given to you, just like my husband can't give it to you. ”
The two sisters argued about which room to rest in, and the man finally breathed a sigh of relief and let his wife take care of the thorny problem. If he made his own decision, it would be too difficult.
Some netizens commented that this woman is really confused, how can she ask others to move out?She could have stayed in the guest room, and rightfully so. Why does the dove occupy the magpie's nest, does she want to take the position of the representative sister?
My personal opinion is that the woman should follow the host's arrangement, because the guest should be according to the host's preferences and rules. Especially the newlyweds, they can't do without each other. Now is not the time to break them up, let alone occupy someone's master bedroom. Since it is borrowed, it is necessary to settle down.
Of course, the man was also worried about causing misunderstandings. After all, my wife's cousin is still single, and if she gets up in the middle of the night and walks into the wrong room and inadvertently walks into the master bedroom, it may cause unnecessary trouble. To avoid misunderstandings, it is a wise choice to arrange for the woman to stay in the guest room.
Follow the local customs, and be at peace with what you encounter. Since you are boarding in someone else's home, don't ask too much so as not to cause trouble to others. If there is really nowhere to go, you can seek help from netizens, and there may be many people who do not have a hostess in their master bedroom, which just meets the needs of women.
In short, people should know how to adapt to the environment and respect other people's rules and preferences in life. Don't inconvenience others because of a momentary comfort, this is a sign of ignorance. If you need to borrow someone else's home, you should keep to yourself and avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes.