61-year-old Lao Zhao and 48-year-old Su Lan have been remarried for more than a year, and now they are getting divorced again, which has attracted a lot of attention. This love and marriage relationship with a large age gap is already a little surprising, and now the separation makes people feel a little regretful. However, the truth of the matter is only known to the parties involved, and we cannot judge who is right and who is wrong. However, such things also make people wonder if this age-gap relationship is feasibleLao Zhao's case is a typical example. After he retired, he had plenty of time and certain economic conditions, and wanted to live in Yunnan. met the divorced Su Lan in the sojourn, for Lao Zhao, Su Lan is young and beautiful, beautiful and generous. In a few contacts, Su Lan was found to be a smart, capable and virtuous woman. In the sojourn, Su Lan lived next door to Lao Zhao. After going back and forth, the two became familiar with each other. Lao Zhao didn't know much about cooking, and he happened to see Su Lan's craftsmanship, so the relationship between the two quietly grew. In fact, such romantic relationships are not uncommon. People with a large age gap can also be very happy to get along with. However, there is still a lot to be aware of in such a relationship. First, there can be huge differences in the Xi and values of both parties.
For example, Lao Zhao and Su Lan's life Xi and preferences may be very different, which can make it difficult to get along. Secondly, the age gap will also affect psychological communication to a certain extent. Lao Zhao and Su Lan can have very different topics in scope, which can make communication difficult. In addition to this, there are a few other problems. For example, there is a greater likelihood of a third party intervening, which can cause distress in the relationship. Also, Lao Zhao and Su Lan's children may be disgusted with this relationship, which will increase the difficulty of getting along. Finally, we cannot deny the advantages of such a romantic relationship. Lao Zhao and Su Lan's relationship also proves their advantages. Two people can be tolerant and understanding of each other, and respect each other's independence. This relationship also helps to drive growth and development for both parties. In general, such a romantic marriage relationship is not unfeasible. However, their advantages and disadvantages should be carefully considered and their own decisions should be made. No matter what kind of love and marriage relationship, both parties need to understand, respect, support and love each other. In this way, the relationship can be long-lasting and beautiful. At the beginning, when Lao Zhao and Su Lan received their marriage certificate, this marriage was based on mutual trust.
Lao Zhao likes Su Lan's beauty and gentleness, while Su Lan hopes to find someone who can take care of her for the rest of her life. However, as time passed, the problems between Lao Zhao and Su Lan gradually surfaced. First, there is the issue of bride price. Although Su Lan has already given a reason, asking for a bride price of 100,000 yuan is indeed a huge amount of money for an ordinary salaried class like Lao Zhao. Moreover, the bride price should not be one of the necessary conditions for marriage. Marriage should be based on mutual respect and trust between the parties, not on the exchange of money. If Su Lan really loves Lao Zhao, he should understand his economic strength, and for the future of the two of them, he should work hard with Lao Zhao, instead of just getting married for his own interests. The second is the disposal of the property. Although Lao Zhao has transferred the house to his son's name, this approach has not solved the problem. Legally, the house is still Lao Zhao's property, and if divorced, Su Lan can also get a part of the property. This practice made Su Lan feel dissatisfied, because she thought that Lao Zhao did not fully trust her. If Lao Zhao really wants Su Lan to no longer have any suspicions, he should consider buying a new house with Su Lan, which can not only solve the housing problem, but also prove his sincerity to Su Lan.
Finally, there is the issue of housework. Although Su Lan did a good job before, her attitude has changed now. This could be because she feels like she's been doing it for a long time and needs a break, or because she wants to leave the housework to a maid to take care of. However, no matter what the reason, she should communicate with Lao Zhao, instead of making Lao Zhao feel cold and disappointed. If Su Lan really felt that she needed to rest, she should have told Lao Zhao in advance and discussed with him how to share the housework;If she wants to hire a maid, she should also discuss it with Lao Zhao, instead of making Lao Zhao feel passive and dissatisfied. In conclusion, marriage is a relationship that needs to be maintained and managed by both parties. Only on the basis of mutual understanding and trust can both parties face the challenges in marriage together and enjoy the joy of marriage. For Lao Zhao and Su Lan, they should communicate more honestly, solve each other's problems, and make this marriage better. "A salary of 5,000 yuan and three meals a day without having to pay for your own wallet may seem like a good deal, but for some people it is not. Su Lan is one of them. She made a new request to Lao Zhao, asking Lao Zhao to provide 2,000 yuan per month to buy dishes at home, or pay her directly for her own consumption.
Lao Zhao felt that this was not too much, so he paid Su Lan an extra fee every month, and the atmosphere at home became lively again. However, half a month later, Su Lan packed her luggage and filed for divorce from Lao Zhao. Lao Zhao was stunned, and he didn't understand that he had offended Su Lan. He rejected the offer of divorce, but during the dispute, Su Lan pushed Lao Zhao down, causing Lao Zhao to be injured. Lao Zhao was happy to marry this beautiful and capable wife, but he couldn't understand why everything had turned out like this. For such a story, perhaps we can think about the importance of mutual respect and understanding between husband and wife. Marriage is a partnership of equality and mutual respect, and both parties should work together to maintain the relationship. Of course, communication and understanding are also crucial in the face of contradictions and disagreements. I hope that every couple can manage a happy marriage. ”