The helplessness of life has honed many excellent and strong women. They are alone at home to support the family's affairs, and they also have to endure the torture of illness.
Xiaofen, she is the only daughter in the family, she is loved by her parents and liked by her brother. Although she is also from the countryside, she has not done much farm work since she was born.
Although she was spoiled by the family, she had a good personality, and I have not seen her lose her temper or speak loudly in the twenty or thirty years since I met her.
I have always admired her character, gentle and beautiful, tall, with a good figure, in my eyes she is a perfect woman.
The husband she married was on our street, which was the township government at that time, and after the township was withdrawn and merged into the town, we could only be regarded as a street.
Work. Her father-in-law is a worker, and her mother-in-law has no job. At that time, the family was very good.
Her in-laws have two storefronts on the street because her husband also has an older brother and two younger sisters. The girl's appearance, the house on the street does not have a sister's share.
Her husband also has a craft, that is, a painter, painting cars, exterior walls, and railings, but her husband is not a person who does big things, he doesn't do it if he has the craft, he likes to go out to work.
He said that there is no responsibility, no pressure, and he is not afraid to take risks, and he has been on the road of part-time work all his life.
They have two daughters, the older one has been working for a few years, and the younger daughter is a supernatal and is now a sophomore.
The family is not very wealthy, but it is very harmonious, especially the two of them.
I used to be door-to-door with them when I was doing business in my hometown, and I never saw them quarrel with each other.
Fen's temper is really good. She doesn't argue with her husband about what she says, and she doesn't argue. Maybe the husband and wife will negotiate something in the evening. But her husband's words also believe that if something calls her husband, her husband will do it.
It's been twenty or thirty years since they were so ordinary, and the year before last, they were still thinking about buying a house in the city. My house in the city was sold to her.
In this way, it is a little difficult for the family that is not rich in the first place.
The Finn people are gentle, but they don't have much strength to work, they seem to be blown down by the wind, and their health has not been very good. She had a fibroid on her head, but it was benign, and it was not easy to operate on her head, so she kept dragging it and left it alone.
In the past few years, her husband has been working outside, and he didn't come back until the New Year, and he left again not long after the New Year. They have been living separately.
Fen has to work at home alone, and she also has to deal with the family's favorites and the living expenses of her youngest daughter. She was already in poor health, and she had to rest her body.
Not long ago, she mentioned to me that she almost lost her life this year.
She said that in those days, she went to work, she had no strength at all, she wanted to sit when she stood up, she wanted to lie down when she sat down, and she didn't want to walk.
She said that she couldn't stand it anymore and couldn't do anything alone, so she asked for leave to go to the hospital for a check-up.
A test showed that it had hyperthyroidism and spent a few days in the hospital before returning home to work.
She said that she really had no strength at that time, the two thighs did not want to move at all, and she insisted on taking a rural bus to the hospital alone, if she did not go to the hospital, the patient might be aggravated, and the consequences would be unimaginable.
Fortunately, she herself attaches great importance to her body. She seems to be weak, but she is still strong-willed, and she did not do that kind of weak behavior.
My husband was not at home, so I went to the hospital for a check-up by myself. One takes care of oneself.
This kind of woman is strong at heart, the pride of our women, and an example for all to learn.
Women have to take care of themselves.
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