In a chic village, there lives such a white-haired old man, he is Li Laohan. He single-handedly raised four children, three boys and one girl, each of whom had a car and a house, and his living conditions were undoubtedly better than those of Lao Han himself. Today, however, he is deeply confused, feeling the unfair treatment of his children, and on the other hand, he is helplessly aware that he is gradually falling into the margins of family life. In this situation, he began to ask himself, "Is their happiness and joy really irrelevant to us?"The tears of this old man in the countryside turned into words, telling his inner pain with sincere and straightforward words.
The sun is thin, and the golden crow gradually falls into the blue deep sea, and the mountains and rivers are full of prosperity and have passed. And in the depths of the countryside, Li Laohan is quietly writing his legendary life. In the past, he and his wife dragged four smart and lovely children to grow up**, they each had their own careers, houses and cars, and the family had a good life since then. However, prosperity is like a dream, short and fleeting, happiness is just the silhouette of childhood, with the passage of time, the elderly Li Laohan is alone to face a difficult retirement life.
His heart was filled with helplessness and strange doubts. He often went to live in other children's homes for a few days, and every time he returned, his fiery heart was as if it had been doused with ice water, cold and very sad. His eldest son and eldest wife complained a lot, and at one point they suspected that Li Laohan was being bullied in the other children's homes, and they even filed a complaint with the court, demanding that each child should take the responsibility of caring for him fairly. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, but this has become a lingering shadow in Li Laohan's heart.
When the voice of society sounded, this old man who had suffered from the vicissitudes of life was once again tired of the successes and failures of life, and walked into the courtroom lonely and tragically, begging the judge to be gracious! !Although he is well aware that it may cause family strife, his determination remains strong, and he longs for everyone to be truly filial and equally take on the responsibility of caring for him. The judge eventually agreed to the request and made a controversial decision to stay at each child's home for three months each year.
However, this decision was not approved by all members of the family. The eldest wife resolutely refused Li Laohan to live in the house for a long time on the grounds that she was responsible for raising the children, and proposed a plan to subsidize some living expenses for him every month, but resolutely did not allow him to move in. The husband did not dare to make any comments on this, and the husband and wife turned a blind eye to the matter and were suspected of evading it.
This made Li Laohan feel unprecedented humiliation, and understood that his position in this family was becoming more and more embarrassing. He began to question his own existential value and his role in family life. He began to reflect on the past in his life, trying to find out if there were things that had not been done enough to lead to where he is today. However, after thinking about it, it was fruitless. This problem was like a big mountain, pressing on his heart, and he couldn't let go.
Despite the vague doubts and setbacks, Li Laohan still maintained his inner strength. He returned to his youngest son's house and looked at his son's eyes full of doubts and worries, and his heart was full of emotion. He knows that he can't become a drag on his family because he is getting older, and he hopes that his children will understand this. However, he never said it, because he knew that meaningless words would only make them more uncomfortable.
Life must go on, for Li Laohan, maybe this is the cycle of life. Life has been so long and warm for him. This event, full of drama and poignancy, calls on the public to think about deeper issues: When we enter old age, what kind of life are we most looking forward to?Do you want your loved ones to be with you at all times, or do you choose to retire from the world?What are your hopes for the future?
I would like to live alone in a humble house, but I want to live happily;If my children have a heart for me, they will do what they canIf my daughter doesn't want to, I don't force it, everything is fine. This deep friendship made people have deep admiration and sympathy for this old man. He used his life to show the world that parents are an indispensable part of their children's lives, not a simple burden. For the mistakes of parents, we should be more tolerant and understanding, take care of our beloved relatives with our hearts, and let life bloom with the beauty of art in love and care.