Girlfriends of the opposite sex have almost become a pain point in modern society. As long as it is mentioned, both men and women are gritting their teeth about it.
We compare the relationship between opposite-sex girlfriends to the relationship between parents and children, so is there a sexual overtone to it?Imagine a father-son relationship and a father-daughter relationship, and the difference between the two is obvious. The relationship with his daughter undoubtedly contains elements of the father and the alien **, but this is not the same as direct sexual behavior, because it will violate the moral bottom line and belong to the category of **. However, there is a sexual overtone in the father-daughter relationship, but it does not translate into action. Similarly, a father-son relationship has a sexual touch to male homosexuality, but it is not put into practice. However, it is important to note that if this father beats his son every day, then their relationship may have gone beyond homosexual sex and may even develop into an SM-level relationship.
From a psychoanalytic perspective, we do not judge sexual behavior between two people simply by whether they are actually having sex or not. As I mentioned in the case of beating, this seemingly unrelated behavior is actually closely related to sex on a deep psychological level. The purpose of my description is to remind fathers who often beat their sons that their actions are actually homosexuality. It is hoped that such a view will make them aware of the seriousness of the act and thus avoid such violence.
I believe that intimacy between men and women can exist in the form of pure friendship, and "pure" here does not refer to emotional purity, but to behavioral constraints. Even if there is certainly a delicate relationship between a man and a woman at the emotional level, it remains pure as long as it does not rise to the level of practical action. Love, marriage, emotion