1.Chat with girls who are about the same value as you.
Find a topic that is only suitable for the kind of relationship where the conditions of two people are not much different, and the other party does not hate you.
2.Remember not to be rigid, for example, when the opposite sex is in the toilet at this time, you keep asking people what they like to eat, but after the girl ignores you, you still complain.
3.Remember not to ask questions all the time, as this will make you look like a social investigator or have never seen the world. The purpose of giving your topic is to keep you talking to her in this direction, not just asking you to ask people questions (!!).
If you're the kind of person who wants to chat with the opposite sex, but doesn't know how to speak, doesn't know how to open the conversation, dive into this article:
There are four types of topics related to the opposite sex.
Hobby.
Reminiscing about the past.
Imagine the type.
Ambiguous relational type.
Hobby.
LikeWhat type of books to read?
Do you like pets?
What types of movies and TV do you like?
What's your favorite color?
Do you usually like to scroll through Weibo?
What is your favorite sport?
Do you like swimming?
What's your favorite season?
Which city would you most like to visit?
What do you usually like to do on weekends?
Do you follow gossip news?
What's the best ** you've ever heard?
tips：1.ForHobbies, don't ask her if you like xx, but ask her which one you like?
Maybe you don't understand what I'm talking about, so I'll explain it to you.
Do you like to read?”
Eh, do you usually like to watch ** or history?”
Let me think about it, for the first one, the girl may reply to you like it, don't like it, and then you are confused and don't know what to say, andYou started scolding me in your heart.
But if it's the second one, the girl's reply is these three situations:
1.**2.History.
3.I don't like either, I like to read social science.
Either one of the above, I think you can start talking about it next, justFor example, if it is **, then you can say: "I have been watching Yu Hua's life recently, watching every character in the text die one after another, and my heart is really uncomfortable".
At this time, the girl will start to discuss the plot with you, so this, won't it open the conversation?Isn't it going to get better?
2.I'll give you another example: "Do you prefer red or pink?".”
See, I'm here again with a locked Q&A, then her replyA: Either of these.
1.Red. 2.Pink.
3.Neither, I love purple.
Here I would like to introduce the practical skill of cold reading, which is simply a common interpretation of a thing, such as: "Although you are confident and cheerful on the outside, you are restless on the inside".
You areA person with a lot of feelings, but not good at expressing himself, and sometimes misunderstood as an indifferent person".
Then on the topic of color, I can do a simple cold reading to him: "If you really like red, then I think you may look warm on the outside, but you may also be fragile on the inside".
Basically, this kind of thing will not be objected to by the girl, on the contrary, she will think that you understand her very well, how about it, isn't it amazing?
Reminiscing about the past.
What is the most memorable thing about your childhood?
What grieves you the most?
Is there anything that has made you happy for a long time?
Is there a teacher who impresses you the most?
What embarrassed you the most.
When do you feel like you've grown up?
Is your former best friend now in touch?
What are some of the more shameful things you've ever done?
What do you do when you're in trouble?
How was your Xi when you were in school?
You quarrel with your best friendHave you ever been?
Have you ever lied?
What kind of people do you hate the most?
Do you like your dad or your mom best?
tips：1.After reading the above questions, think about the people who know these things about you and youWhat is the relationship?
That's right, most of the people who know about you are basically your good friends, or people who are close to you.
So on the other hand, can you enhance your relationship by communicating these questions with girls?
2.These are all things that impress her, so can you also use these questions to get to know her more deeply, and then choose to better present you in front of her?
1) For example: You ask her, "What kind of person do you hate the most?"”
Then she might say, "Ah, I hate that kind of person who doesn't count, like xxxx."
See, at this time, you have extracted a message, she doesn't like to lie, so do you have to pay special attention to this point when you get along with her in the future?
2) As another example, you ask her, "What do you do when you get stuck?"”
She might say, "Ah, I'm the kind of person who likes not to give up, I like to carry everything alone, and I don't want to rely on other people's help."
Most of these girls have a strong personality and are decisive and do not hesitate. Deduce that this kind of girl is also more independent, if you like the kind of special clingy, it is better to separate as soon as possible. Good for everyone.
And if she says, "Ah, I'm not going to be able to persevere when I'm in trouble."
That kind of girl belongs to the kind of girl who has weak willpower and is easy to hesitate when encountering problems, so at this time you need to take the initiative to give her more ideas, so that she will feel that you are particularly assertive and a person to rely on.
If you see this and prove that you are also a person who is truly willing to change yourself for the sake of love, you may wish to mark this answer and read on.
Imagine the type.
What would you most like to do if you were Superman?
What age would you most like to go back to if you traveled?
Is there anything you want to do that you haven't done yet?
What are you going to do if you become rich?
If you're very ugly, do you have plastic surgery?
What was the most important career you wanted to do as a child?
What is the best love in your heart?
Would you be willing to trade your beauty for immortality?
What will you do if your family keeps urging you to go on a blind date?
If you could only choose one face, which one would you choose?
Do you think a strong woman or a full-time wife is better?
tips：1.At first glance, I guess you and I have a feeling: "This question is too sand sculpture, what kind of banana sticks and hammers".
But why would I take these things out?That's because girls like to talk, of course.
As we all know, the imagination of our female compatriots is the first in the universe, and I searched for these things on the software.
You don't have to talk to me, there are a lot of boys like this, of course I know, but the proportion of girls who like to watch ** is definitely greater than that of boys.
2.For this type of question, I recommend that you say it when you don't know what to say during the chat with the girl, so that you can instantly divert her attention.
Or you can use one of them as an opening statement, there is nothing wrong with this, it does not involve the problem of a sense of need, nor does it design a high and low level to get along, it is completely a process of developing brain holes and communicating with each other.
Ambiguous relational type.
Did you ever receive a love letter when you were in school?
Do you believe in love at first sight or love over time?
Have you ever dreamed of doing something dirty on your own?
Do you know how to drive?
You've been in love a few times.
How did you feel when you kissed for the first time?
Who do you think should be in charge in a relationship?
What do you do when you quarrel with your boyfriend?
What is the most attractive place for a man to attract a woman?
Will you close your eyes when kissing?
How do you vent your emotions?
Where do you feel most confident in your body?
What's one thing you've been working on lately?
What was my first impression on you?
Are you an emotional or rational person?
What kind of date are you most looking forward to?
One is handsome but scummy and the other is ugly but talented, which do you choose?
tips：1.Those who can ask this topic are generally in an ambiguous period, that is, the feeling of "through a layer of window paper, but it just doesn't pierce", and at this time you should talk more about more ambiguous topics, rather than exchanging information there.
2.There's an underlying logic to this type of topic conversation, which is that you want to create a more ambiguous feeling.
For example: "How did you feel the first time you kissed?"”
Girls: Balabala
You: "Oh, that's what it sounds like me, so let's try it for ourselves next time."
Another example: "What do you do when you have a fight with your boyfriend".
Girl: "I think the best thing must be that both of them should be calm and calm first, otherwise it will definitely be more noisy and fierce."
You: "Seeing that you make such a sense, I'll let you have some in the future."
Do you see?At this stage, you should try your best to create this ambiguous atmosphere so that your relationship can go further.
Otherwise, if you keep hanging in front, I guess it won't be long before you step into the friendship zone.
The past has been relieving from the beginning, and my heart has been relieved.