Mingjia, who had just debuted, was forced by his parents to go on a blind date, and the other party was just an ordinary person.
However, Yu Mingjia was very unhappy that they were only meeting for the first time, and the other party put forward the idea that staying at home and raising their husbands and children was noble, while shopping for beauty was shameful.
He swore to Ming that he would never marry him.
Only half a year later, Yu Mingjia, who had just celebrated his 28th birthday, suddenly changed his mind and decided to marry the other party.
Her decision left her parents in a panic.
Although they want their daughter to get married soon, they also don't want her to make rash decisions.
After all, the two met on a blind date, and they are also engaged in different professions.
Decisively obtaining the certificate in the worried eyes of the parents, may or may not be concerned about these things.
It's been 13 years since she's gotten along with her ordinary husband.
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Mingjia is a post-80s generation, and his hometown is Changchun, Jilin.
Although her father is just an ordinary traffic policeman, her mother was born in a scholarly family and is a beautiful lady.
My aunt is a heroic diplomat in her mother's house, and my uncle is a successful expatriate.
The whole family can be called outstanding.
As the only daughter in the family, her parents paid attention to Yu Ming wholeheartedly.
Her mother was very strict with Minga, and she even copied the way she was educated when she was a child.
At home, Yu Ming must be quiet, not loud, show reverence towards his parents, and be respectful and courteous in his speech and demeanor.
During meals, as long as her parents don't sit down, she can't sit down;As long as her parents don't move the chopsticks, she must never move.
Her mother also insisted that she get up at six o'clock every morning to read English, and never allowed her to sleep too late.
Must go to bed by 10 p.m. and cannot eat until you fall asleep.
She was in charge of everything in Minga's house, and all kinds of rules made her feel very painful.
What she could not tolerate was that her mother's demands on her studies had become "ruthless" to the extreme.
When she was in elementary school, her mother always didn't ask her how she ranked, but asked her bluntly if she had a perfect score.
Her mother thought that she would only be considered qualified if she had a perfect score.
On the one hand, her parents are strict with her, and on the other hand, they are worried that she will become a "nerd".
She began to participate in a variety of interest classes, including dance, piano, singing and calligraphy.
Her after-school schedule is full.
The students thought that Yu Mingjia had excellent academic performance, handsome appearance, and superior family conditions.
Yu Mingjia is already in his private car, while others may still be walking or waiting for his parents to pick him up by bicycle.
The driver took me to and from school every day, it was like living in a fairy tale world.
Minga, however, has a different view, believing that she is living in a prison where she lacks freedom.
Through the car window, she envied her classmates who were frolicking and running on the way out of school.
Finally, one day, she couldn't suppress her desire for freedom, and at the invitation of her classmates, she didn't come home on time after school.
I didn't go to the roller skating rink alone, but went roller skating with my classmates.
Minga is like a bird that has lived in a cage for a long time, and now he is finally free to play on the roller skating rink.
She unconsciously forgot the passage of time, and it wasn't until the entire rink was lit up that she remembered to go home.
The family was in chaos, and his parents kept calling teachers and classmates to ask about Yu Mingjia's whereabouts, like a pot of confusion.
My mother's eyes were already swollen from crying, and by the time I got home, I had a good time.
Her father was so angry that he started to do it to her for the first time.
After being beaten, the grievances in Yu Mingjia's heart also burst out, and his parents couldn't help but be shocked when they heard it.
They never expected that their daughter would have so much unhappiness in her heart.
Since then, her parents have become more lenient in her teaching, and abroad, her uncle has often spoken well for her.
It is important to learn more from parents abroad and give your children more freedom to make more decisions.
When I was about to graduate from high school, Yu Mingjia had the right to make this decision, and in the eyes of my family, I made a decision that they all opposed.
Her behavior is not only messing around, but also ruining her future.
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His aunt is the person Yu Mingjia admired the most since he was a child.
Therefore, she made up her mind from an early age that she wanted to be a diplomat when she grew up.
After graduating from high school, Minga gradually changed his mind.
As the backbone of the school's literature and art, she is often praised by teachers and classmates.
If you choose to become an actor, I am sure you will become an outstanding star.
Yu Mingjia's dream of becoming a diplomat began to waver, slowly under the influence of his upbringing as a child.
She begins to show her rebellious side, tired of her parents' arrangements, and disgusted with the step-by-step life of ordinary people.
Because of her excellent academic performance and the fact that she won awards in many competitions, Minga was escorted to the Foreign Affairs Academy early.
When she and other classmates were preparing for the college entrance examination, they lit the lamp and worked hard, but she was extraordinarily idle and participated in various extracurricular activities.
It wasn't until she was about to take the college entrance examination that she had the courage to tell her parents.
I aspire to take the college entrance examination, and I aspire to apply for acting schools and become an actor.
Her parents were shocked by her idea, but no matter how much her parents tried to persuade her, she was stubborn.
Her parents had to turn to her aunt and uncle to persuade her and help her analyze the pros and cons of the situation.
However, she expressed this thought: "My life has been arranged by you for 20 years, and this time I want to make my own decision. ”
After hearing her words, her parents could only sigh helplessly, even though they were very protective of Ming.
However, they also understand that when the child grows up, she will eventually embark on her own path, and her parents cannot be by her side forever.
Yu Ming brought his personal information and went to the registration point of ** Drama Academy. That's it.
Her information made the teacher in charge of admissions feel very entangled.
He is very interested in Minga's conditions, she is beautiful, dignified and generous, and versatile.
Not only did she excel in her studies, but she also received a guaranteed place at the Foreign Affairs Academy, which is another thing.
The teacher was not sure whether to admit her, whether he helped her or hurt her.
She also expressed her thoughts when answering questions from admissions teachers.
I don't care what the future holds, I just want to pursue what I love, which is to be an actor.
Only then did the admissions teacher realize that Yu Mingjia was indeed unique and different from others.
Many people aspire to become actors, they are pursuing fame and fortune, but Yu Mingjia is out of a deep love for acting.
Isn't that what they expect from this kind of student?
When Yu Ming received the admission letter from Chinese opera, her parents were both happy and worried.
Children who grew up in ivory towers, if they enter the entertainment industry, will they be able to withstand the ** there?
However, this time they did underestimate Yu Mingjia's strength.
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Yu Mingjia became classmates with Wang Lei, Gao Lu, Gu Zhixin and other classmates in Chinese opera, and as one of the best beauties in the class, she was sought after by many suitors.
Unlike most girls, she grew up in a privileged family environment and had excellent self-control.
She was unfazed by the snacks, gifts and flowers that the boys offered.
She devoted herself to her studies on campus, not distracted by performances or advertising shoots, and concentrated on studying acting.
Her teachers are very satisfied with her attitude towards learning.
In 2004, after graduating from Mingjia University, he was admitted to Beijing Renyi with excellent grades, and became colleagues with Song Dandan, Pu Cunxin, Feng Yuanzheng and other old-timers.
At that time many people advised her:
Newcomers are not allowed to go out to take on dramas for a year, and the salary is still very low, why do you want to do this?
Minga said with a smile
It's such a rare opportunity, and I can even pay to learn from those old gentlemen.
Although Minga is relaxed in words, this is not the case at all in practice.
As a newcomer, she can only start with a dragon role, and she doesn't even have a single line.
Even so, she was often criticized by the old gentleman, accusing her of walking too much, moving too much on stage, etc.
Slowly, Yu Ming gradually realized that on the stage of Renyi, no matter how big or small the role is, as long as he performs on stage, he should go all out.
A year later, Yu Mingjia was able to go out to take over, and her appearance and temperament attracted many directors, and they extended olive branches to her.
She resolutely refused, immersed herself in the drama stage and couldn't extricate herself, and gradually promoted from the initial role of a dragon to a supporting role.
She didn't have lines at first, but then gradually got one or two lines, showing her ability to endure loneliness and study diligently.
received high praise from Song Dandan and others.
Until 2007, director Zheng Xiaolong directed the TV series "Golden Wedding" again and invited Xiang Yu Mingjia to participate.
She plays the role of Zhang Guoli and Jiang Wenli's daughter "Tong Duoduo" in the play, and has close roles with many other characters.
Despite the strong aura of the old actor, she is also not afraid, and she is steady and comfortable in her performance, and finally won unanimous praise.
Mingjia's career started quite successfully, he became famous with "Golden Wedding", and then cooperated with Wang Zhiwen, Chen Daoming, Mei Ting and others to shoot the TV series "Mobile Phone", showing excellent performance.
They are all veteran actors with rich experience in the entertainment industry and superb acting skills.
Finally in 2009, Yu Mingjia was recognized by Renyi, when Pu Cunxin's father Su Min directed the drama "Cai Wenji".
She was appointed to play the heroine "Cai Wenji", and at this time, she had been honing on the stage of Renyi for five years.
Except for the two dramas "Golden Wedding" and "Mobile Phone", I have not taken over other dramas.
Today, 27-year-old Yu Mingjia is still single, and he has not even been in a relationship.
Her parents are secretly worried, afraid that she will become a leftover girl in the entertainment industry.
The old couple discussed it and decided to help Yu Ming, and they began to use their relationships to find a suitable partner for their daughter.
Forced her to participate in a blind date.
As soon as she mentioned "blind date", Yu Mingjia felt a little headache, this kind of thing still exists in modern society, no matter what, she is always like a female star, and she can't seem to find a marriage partner.
But his parents didn't pay attention to this, and one day when Yu Mingjia was rehearsing a new play, he suddenly received a ** from his father.
Her father told her that there was a wonderful young man who wanted to meet her, that the place had been decided, and that he wanted her to go after work.
Mingjia suddenly felt a splitting headache, she had participated in many blind dates like this, but she had not met a reliable partner every time.
She began to be coquettish, claiming that she needed to work overtime, but she really didn't have time.
Her careful thoughts, but her father had already figured it out, so he "threatened" and said:
Okay, then I'll take him to your unit to find you, and you can also ask your colleagues to check for us.
As soon as she heard this, Yu Mingjia immediately began to beg for mercy, if she let her colleagues know, she would lose face.
Minga had no choice but to be honest about the blind date.
The man she met with was Hu Jun, who worked in sales for a car sales company in Shanghai.
Yu Ming's acceptance of the job was acceptable, but what made her a little difficult to accept was that this man was 7 years older than her.
She was completely puzzled by her parents' introduction to such an "old man", and she really couldn't understand their thoughts.
Before the meeting, Yu Mingjia was fully prepared for the mentality, she believed that he must be a greasy man with glasses, a fat figure, and a suit and leather shoes.
Seeing the real face, Yu Mingjia was a little suspicious of his eyes.
Although she was mentally prepared, she still had an urge to turn away immediately.
A man over thirty years old, wearing ripped jeans and a brightly colored top, what is even more unacceptable is that under the sun, he still maintains a curly hairstyle, and it is obvious that his hair has also been dyed.
Can such a person be trusted?She likes the kind of boy who is sunny and handsome, clean and neat, and refreshing.
What made Minga even more unbearable was that the other party was actually a straight man, unabashedly expressing that he longed to marry a virtuous woman as a partner, and did not appreciate those women who went shopping and going to beauty salons all day long.
When Yu Mingjia left in a hurry, he didn't even finish a meal. She told her father via text message.
Being with Hu Jun is simply impossible for me.
Her father shared his experience with a smile on his face, and suggested that he try to associate with Hu Jun first, cultivate generally, and focus on promotion.
Can you take a few more shots, if possible?
She found that she was extremely lost compared to her father, and felt that she was too far behind.
However, after Hu Jun returned to Shanghai, he fell in love with her completely, which Minga did not know.
Under the "betrayal" of his father, Hu Jun catered to his preferences, put on normal style clothes, and got a neat and neat short haircut.
He even applied to the company for a transfer to Beijing.
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At the end of 2007, Yu Mingjia drank too much alcohol at a party with friends, and she flipped through the address book, only to find that she sadly found that she seemed to have to be picked up by Hu Jun.
Hu Jun cherished this opportunity very much, not only personally sent Minga back to his residence, but also offered to make a bowl of noodles for him.
Ease the discomfort in your stomach.
As soon as he opened the refrigerator, Hu Jun was dumbfounded, there were only various drinks in the refrigerator of Yu Mingjia's house, and there were no other things at all.
Minga was happy about this, and she told Hu Jun that she was not good at cooking at all and had no desire to learn.
If he intends to marry her home, then he must seriously consider it, for she will certainly not be a virtuous wife.
But he said Hu Jun: It's okay, I'm willing to cook for you for the rest of my life.
Yu Mingjia's heart was completely disturbed by this sentence.
In 2010, Yu Mingjia accepted Hu Jun's marriage proposal on her 28th birthday, even though they had known each other for less than half a year.
Minga's father was amazed at how his daughter's attitude had changed so quickly.
For the sake of her daughter, after Yu Mingjia gave birth to a pair of twin daughters, she temporarily put her career on hold.
It wasn't until 2012 that he started making films again.
Hu Jun felt sorry for her, and he had to take care of his daughter and work at the same time, so he persuaded her to stay at home.
Women have to have their own careers and at the same time be beautiful, otherwise one day you will lose interest in me.
Hu Jun couldn't refute her words, but fortunately she had a very good mother-in-law. When she learned that she was going to work outside the home, she rushed to help take care of the children so that she could have the opportunity to go out and develop her career.
After Yu Mingjia's comeback, he successively filmed many film and television dramas such as "Mendi", "Peach Blossom Luck", "My Wife is a Post-80s", "Love is the Source of Joy", "Twenty Don't Be Confused", "Beautiful Days" and so on.
She has won the love of the audience and has become a high-profile actress.
When Yu Ming is not filming, she is keen on sports and fitness, and although she is over 40 years old, she still manages to maintain a good figure.
She doesn't look like she's ever been a mother of two.
She found that everything was as she expected, and her husband and mother-in-law were very considerate to her for many years after they were married.
She sticks to her principles and never cooks or does household chores, but spends all her time with time, her children and herself.
She believes that as a wife, having children is a responsibility that must be taken on and an integral part of life.
However, there is no requirement for women to revolve around the stove, which is unfair.
She prefers to be independent and strong than to conquer her husband's stomach, because only in this way can she win the love of others.
What should everyone do with Minga's sobriety?
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