December 31, 2023 Sunny and warm
1. Work for 8 hours
2. Emotional state: positive, no physical discomfort.
1. Fifty years of life is like a reverse journey of time, how can it be obscure?
Yesterday I received my younger brother **, he said that he has been promoted, he is currently the general office of the region, and he will go to the destination in a few days to take up a job. The salary has also increased significantly, and it is estimated that if you work hard for a few more years, you may not have to worry about money like ordinary people.
I haven't been in touch for a while recently, and it turns out that my brother is busy with the promotion inspection. When I received the news, I was very excited.
The younger brother graduated from Southwest University of Political Science and Law, but after graduation, he started from the grassroots level of the company, promoting the company's products store by store.
I remember when he first started working, he was running a customer on a motorcycle, and he accidentally fell and got a big scrape on his arm. And he was able to endure it, and he didn't tell his family. I didn't see it until the wound was almost healed.
The place of work also has to be arranged by the company, so basically I am in a state of separation from my family, and the hardships can be imagined.
In this way, he worked at the bottom for seven years, from running the store at the beginning to slowly starting to lead the team, and then to finally being responsible for the sales planning and logistics of the entire region, and then leading the team to organize various marketing activities. Slowly, he began to appear on the company's podium, won the first place one by one, and was slowly recognized by the company's leaders.
In the past 7 years, I only occasionally contacted and chatted with him to learn about the fragments of his life, but I know that his work is countless times harder than mine.
Fortunately, now that it has come out, the future work may be more stressful, but after all, this is a relatively large step, and life will be different from now on.
He said, ISince I was a child, I felt that I was different, so I kept working hard in the hope of proving myself。I think this is one of the motivations for him to keep fighting and being able to endure grievances and pain.
He said he dreamed of making a difference in the company and becoming a big player. Every time he mentions the company, he is full of motivation, with persistence and determination in his eyes!
One winter, he and his parents came to me for a few days, and as a result, he has been watching the implementation of the company's related products and promotion activities near my home for the past few days, and has given a lot of advice to the local leaders he knows. I've always been worried that people will be disgusted by giving advice like this. However, I was impressed by his seriousness, dedication, and enthusiasm!
From the trajectory of his life, I have summed up one point:That is, choose a direction, continue to exert efforts, study deeply, regardless of paying, do not complain, and at the same time do a good job, then the opportunity to get the jump in the end will be huge.
If you are an ordinary person, then this method does not guarantee that you will be promoted, but the probability of you being promoted will be greatly increased.
When I was learning eloquence before, I knew an uncle who said that when he was in a state-owned enterprise, he was also the lowest employee, but he was selected by the leaders when he was promoted.
When I asked him the secret, he said there were two key points:One is to do things seriously, and the other is to be obedient.
I think this may be the key to all the low-level people who can fight out!If a person does things seriously, but is not obedient, the leader will inevitably reject them. If a person is obedient but does not take things seriously, when he is promoted, the leader will also worry about causing trouble for himself.
So at the bottom, do things seriously and be obedient. Keep doing this, and maybe you'll be able to stand out.
It's not easy. After 50 years of life, how can you be willing to live like a pig in mediocrity?If you're a self-motivated person who wants to get promoted without the resources and background, this is probably the best way to go.
2. Changes in the concept of education
I had a meeting last night and I learned again.
I always thought that high school mathematics was a slightly more difficult subject, and it was unlikely that I would be able to achieve high grades without putting in considerable effort, so my teaching method was strict.
I tried to get students to memorize formulas and do problems in a high-pressure way, mistakenly thinking that a stressful way of learning could help students improve their grades. But this idea has been proven wrong through years of practice and the awakening of colleagues.
The principal's suggestion is,First become a teacher who students like, don't put pressure on students in the early stage, try to relax, and at the same time abandon the idea of quick success. Wait until you are more familiar with it in the later stage, and then tighten it appropriately. On the one hand, it can effectively prevent students' antagonistic emotions, and on the other hand, it can stimulate students' interest in learning. Because, in most cases, if a student likes the teacher of the subject, then he will be more interested in learning the subject and the likelihood of improving his grades will be higher.
I think it makes a lot of sense!
Self-perception is sometimes one-sided, so no matter what the situation, you should humbly accept the advice of others and judge whether it is really practical through practice. Even the more intense criticisms should not be overreacted to, so as to prevent the situation where others are no longer afraid to raise their opinions.
In the follow-up teaching, I will try my best to create a relaxed teaching atmosphere and use roundabout ways to guide students to love learning.
All in all, I want to train myself hard to be a teacher that students will like, and I am confident in that!