The TV series "Deep Love and Rain" shows a number of radiant female characters, each with unique personality traits.
Recently, a hot topic on the Internet is: "Aunt Xue and Fu Wenpei, which one is a real good mother." ”
There is an opinion that Aunt Xue is the most outstanding mother, she has courage and determination, is able to fight for the best interests of her children, and has a very fiery personality.
There is an opinion that Fu Wenpei has the characteristics of gentleness, intellect and magnanimity, and can teach children to establish correct values.
Each participant has its own unique perspectives and principles. So, which mother is better?
A-stack will guide you through an in-depth analysis.
took away the feelings of her husband.
In fact, there is not much difference between Fu Wenpei and Aunt Xue, they were both forcibly brought home by the warlord Lu Zhenhua.
Fu Wenpei was born in a family with a strong cultural atmosphere, and when she went shopping with her aunt, Lu Zhenhua was immediately attracted to her.
Lu Zhenhua asked her, "What's your name?"”
She is speechless due to fear and has an elusive personality.
When she returned home, she found that her parents were also weak people who could not stand up for their daughter. Even though they already had a marriage contract with each other, they eventually had to accept it.
Her parents were also ordinary people who lacked independent thinking.
At the wedding scene, Lu Zhenhua did not pay tribute to his ancestors or heaven and earth, but showed respect for the army when he saluted.
Adjutant Lee expressed this opinion: "As our commander, he has confidence only in himself. ”
However, the timid and cowardly Fu Wenpei always saluted according to traditional etiquette, and seemed at a loss.
Lu Zhenhua is a very individual and domineering man, while Fu Wenpei is a woman who lacks personality and weak character.
Sooner or later, this combination will encounter difficulties.
However, Aunt Xue's situation is very different.
She is an actress, and within less than a month of being on stage, she was favored by Lu Zhenhua and invited to become the ninth aunt.
The members of the troupe were reluctant to let her go, fearing that she would be treated unfairly.
Despite her young age, she has a very deep sense of things.
Maybe this is the good fortune that I, Wang Xueqin, have. ”
At the wedding ceremony, Luk Zhenhua showed extraordinary ability and always paid tribute to the guests.
Aunt Xue quickly mastered how to participate in social activities with Lu Zhenhua and salute together.
Adjutant Li, who was standing on the sidelines, was shocked, he had probably never seen such a brilliant human spirit.
Lu Zhenhua was obviously very happy, because he knew that such a girl was smart and witty, and very funny.
The relationship between husband and wife is like this, evenly matched, advancing and retreating together, and amusing each other.
Instead of getting along with an innocent rich lady, it is better to choose a witty and witty concubine.
It was precisely because Aunt Xue defeated 8 women that she was particularly favored by Lu Zhenhua.
Only women with unique personalities are the most attractive, and when you rebel against a man, this is the moment when that man respects you the most.
Responses to unfair treatment.
As the wife of a great warlord, she must be able to endure all injustices and grievances.
In Lu Zhenhua's life, everyone faces great difficulties and needs to endure injustice and grievances.
As a mother, Fu Wenpei's eldest daughter died tragically, and her second daughter had an unusually fiery temper, making her a sympathetic person.
However, there is also a disgusting aspect to the sympathetic person.
When faced with her husband's power oppression and domestic violence, she never gave any explanation, always passively accepting and enduring.
Although she did not knock over the medicine bowl herself, she never gave a clear explanation when faced with her husband Lu Zhenhua's questioning.
Not only did she let Yiping suffer a series of blows, but she also left the Lu family in the end.
It must be admitted that there is a servile way of thinking deep inside her.
She sees her husband as a supreme being.
Her parents may have been very knowledgeable, and their mutual respect has lasted a lifetime.
She was confused about how to live in harmony with a powerful soldier, and had to endure and give in repeatedly.
She told Yiping, "I can't say no to your father. ”
Her appearance always looks bowed, and there is no trace of domineering at all.
However, Aunt Xue has very different characteristics from her.
Although she may be subjected to violence by Lu Zhenhua, she will both cry and make a fuss, and at the same time choose to hide, which shows her wisdom.
She is a woman who is expressive, observant and observant, and knows how to protect herself.
More importantly, she is flexible.
Despite being attacked, he could still pretend to be happy to comfort Lu Zhenhua, as if nothing had happened.
This is something that many women struggle to achieve.
He is both a stir-maker and a good appeaser, which is a reflection of his rapid progress.
Aunt Xue's character is like this, which makes people feel both liked and disgusted.
What to do with your child.
Fu Wenpei uses two words to describe the education of children: "patience." ”
Originally, she was supposed to go to the Lu family to ask for living expenses, but because she was afraid, she sent Yiping to go.
Before leaving, he specifically reminded Yiping: "When you go there, try to keep a low profile. ”
When Lu Zhenhua seriously injured Yiping, Yiping did not stand up to defend her daughter, but repeatedly asked: "Why did your father attack you?"”
As a tolerant mother, she hopes that Yiping will not always have disputes with He Shuhuan, but will ask her to show more tenderness.
However, Aunt Xue's situation is very different.
When children were treated unfairly, she did not hesitate to stand up and solve the problem for them.
Erhao made Keyun pregnant with a child, and in order to ensure Erhao's future, Aunt Xue made great efforts.
She kicked the Keyun family out of the door.
Subsequently, Lu Zhenhua realized this situation and took the initiative to stand up and fully support Erhao.
She made great efforts to Ruping, and in order to ensure that Ruping could be with Shuhuan, she not only tried her best to please Shuhuan, but also bought clothes for Ruping.
But then, Shuhuan abandoned Ruping at the engagement banquet, Ruping didn't dare to be angry with Shuhuan, and Aunt Xue's every word hit the point.
It's you, not me, that makes Ruping's heart ache so much. I'm going to hit you. ”
In order to protect her daughter from injustice, she will also do her best.
She is not only a wonderful mother, but also a respectable person who protects her children with all her heart.
Some people are disgusted with her, and some have a crush on her, but there are still many who are willing to be one of her.
Either way, when you become her child, you don't have to worry about being bullied anymore.
However, what do you think of the fact that we can't imitate her selfish and unscrupulous behavior?