In this life, people meet countless people.
Some are passers-by, some are friends, and some are companions.
But only those who can really go into your heart are the right people.
It is a kind of luck and a kind of fate to meet the right person.
It takes serendipity to meet the right person
Sometimes you will meet someone who feels that they are very close to each other and can talk to each other, but after getting along for a long time, you find that it is not suitable to continue dating.
Sometimes you get in touch with someone, but you find that there are a lot of real problems that prevent each other from really coming together.
Sometimes you meet someone and feel comfortable and happy with them, but you don't have that mysterious feeling that is inexplicable and pervades you in the depths of your heart.
And sometimes, you meet someone by chance, you don't care about it at first, but unconsciously there are a lot of intertwined contacts. Even so, you didn't think much about it, but the gears of life are intentionally or unintentionally biting the two of you together, the deeper the relationship, the more expectations for each other, and a feeling arises spontaneously.
It takes a chance to meet the right person, and you need to meet the right person at the right time.
The person who is really right doesn't just want it, it's mainly the right one
Men want to marry Bai Fumei, and women want to marry Gao Fu and handsome. The pursuit of ideals and the pursuit of beauty is human nature.
But what you want isn't necessarily the best, and the best isn't necessarily the right one.
Suitability is not only a fit for love, but also a good match, a fit for three views, and so on.
Two people together are not all romantic and impulsive, but more of a dull and long trivial life, which requires patience and confidence to live little by little, little by little.
Therefore, the right can be stable, and the stability can last for a long time, otherwise, no matter how good it is, it may be a flash in the pan.
If you want to meet the right person, you must first be the right person
What is the right self?
Before answering this question, ask yourself two other questions.
1. What is your ideal self?
2. Have you achieved your ideal self?
I believe that many people have understood these two problems in their hearts.
If you want to meet your ideal type, you must first be your ideal type.
What kind of person you are, what kind of people will appear around you, and you will have the opportunity to choose the right person for you.
Flowers are in full bloom and butterflies are coming.
Meeting the right person is not about sitting and waiting for pie to fall from the sky, but you need to be a better version of yourself first.
Meeting the right person also requires understanding and tolerance
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. No matter how right the person is, it is impossible to follow your heart everywhere and everything is as you want.
A person always feels to himself that "today is and yesterday is not", let alone others
When you meet the right person, only most things can fit, and such as some life Xi habits, hobbies, as well as some faults, shortcomings, etc., it is normal to have disagreements and even Mao Dun, which is human nature.
Therefore, no matter how right people are, they also need to understand and tolerate each other.
When you meet the right person, you must stick to it
When you harvest the flowers that bloom in the garden, you are not only happy, but also emotional. I feel that every branch has condensed your dedication and sweat, that every petal has been injected with your care and expectation, and that you are waiting for a flower to bloom.
You shelter it, you water and fertilize it, you do it for it, you grow it, and you make it who you are.
In the face of the storm and the scorching sun, you have been miserable and have thought about giving up.
However, when you think that the persistence of the past cannot be in vain, and when you think of the beauty of the future beckoning to you, how many times, you have mustered up the courage to cheer up and persevere.
This is true of everything, let alone for the people you meet
When you meet the right person, you must stick to it
We must stick to it when there is a conflict, stick to it when we encounter difficulties, and stick to it when we can't figure it out.
As long as you recognize it, as long as you see it right, stick to it, it is your greatest victory.
In short, it is a kind of luck and fate to meet the right person. We must cherish and operate with heart in order to truly come together.
I hope everyone can meet the right person in their life.