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There are two plots in the TV series "Tiandao", which puzzle the audience.
First, **Ying went to Chaos Soup to eat breakfast, and she had already paid for it before she started eating. But when he finished eating and was about to leave, the stall owner grabbed him and said, "Why don't you give money for dinner?"The tone was full of blame and contempt. Ying hesitated for two seconds, didn't say a word, and paid again.
Second, he went to a noodle restaurant to eat, and the boss saw that he was not coming to eat at the meal point and was not in a hurry, so he asked him curiously: Is it a big boss?
*Ying said no, and then the boss continued to ask, "Do you have a job?"Ying said no. So the boss began to despise him, saying that he was a big living person who didn't work and only ate, so he was not ashamed?
This time, **Ying did not blush, but paid after eating the noodles and left silently.
At that time, the audience wondered, why didn't **Ying defend herself, she obviously paid the chaos money, and she was obviously rich and free, leisurely, can't you eat a bowl of noodles?Is it really okay to let others misunderstand you like this?
A certain emotional blogger has been ** for nearly two years, and now he can more and more understand why ** Ying does not defend himself. Almost every day, he receives people who oppose his views and even insult him. At the beginning, he would reply to a large number of texts, hoping that netizens would understand him, identify with him, and stop attacking him. But then he found that he would never be able to win, even if he spent a lot of effort to win, but there was no sense of accomplishment, and he would still feel itThe vitality is sucked away
Filmmaker Krakauer has used a more positive and profound real experience to interpret this phenomenon of vitality being sucked away. A big movie director made a documentary about the cityscape, with a variety of world-famous buildings and interesting customs from all over the world.
When the director showed this ** to the indigenous people of Africa, he didn't expect that no one was discussing the culture that the film wanted to present, everyone was discussing a chicken. The director didn't even remember that he had ever photographed a chicken, so he began to pull ** frame by frame, and after looking for a long time, he found that in a corner of the picture, there was indeed a chicken that appeared for a few seconds.
The director sighed, it is himself who is wrong, and the indigenous Africans are not wrong!Because for them, the only thing they are familiar with is the chicken, and they have never seen anything else, so naturally they can't see it.
From this, there is also a saying in film science called "Do you see a chicken", which means that when everyone looks at the same thing, they will see a chicken, and what is that chicken?It all depends on the person's cultural background, knowledge structure, and life experience.
*Ying deeply knows that a person like him who is free of wealth and has stopped and spent two years learning to empty himself, which is decadent and chaotic in the eyes of the noodle restaurant boss who works hard every day, so he has no need to defend himself, what he wastes is his own energy.
William MacAdu has many years of experience in politics, he once saidYou can't beat an ignorant person with a debate。Yes, many times we want to crush each other with our own opinions and correct others with our own values. However, people at different levels are destined to have different ways of understanding the same thing.
The abyss can be gazed at, but not stopped。So, whether in real life or in the online world, we must not let the voices against you affect our emotions. You have to be clear,Some words only make sense for those who understand
The cognitive level of the two is too different, and it is difficult to talk together. If you find it difficult not to be affected, isolate yourself from the bar. After all, not everyone deserves your explanation, and if you scold me, it's all you.
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