Love is not a sugar-coated bitter medicine, but after peeling off the "core" of the onion layer after layer, it captures your taste buds, but it stings your eyes.
It's like falling in love with a man and enjoying the sweetness of falling in love with someone, but you will also have a sense of gain and loss because of falling in love with each other.
I hope that the other party likes me, but I am afraid that the other party will not like me, in fact, there are traces of love and non-love.
If a man loves you, he only needs to look at these three aspects.
First, do not care about the return of the effort
In the TV series "Ode to Joy":
Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan like each other, but because there are too many measurements in the adult world, the two of them are not able to confess to each other, but get along awkwardly.
Until the window paper of the two people pretending to test each other was pierced by others, the two people had a very unpleasant quarrel, as if the relationship was no longer there.
Unexpectedly, something happened to Fan Shengmei's family in an instant, and the first to help and care was Wang Baichuan, who was not afraid of trouble, but bowed to it.
If you love someone, you will be willing to take the initiative to give.
There is no heart of gain or loss, and there will be no measure subconsciously, only when the lover is in need, he will rush to the front without care, eager to shelter his beloved from the wind and rain.
No one would want to waste their efforts for someone who doesn't matter, unless it's true love.
2. Take the initiative to approach you
Before getting married, I got along with my husband for a few months, and because they were both thin-skinned, they never pierced the window paper.
The relationship between two people is like an ambiguous game, no one says who they like, but they are not willing to let the relationship come to an abrupt end and test each other.
One night, after eating together, we were about to go home, but I didn't expect it to rain suddenly, the storyline is like a cliché idol drama, we sheltered from the rain under the eaves, the night was cold, and there were only two of us.
Chatting and chatting, suddenly there was silence, he gently shook my hand and gently let go, although he didn't say anything, but it seemed to say everything.
When I got home, I saw that he posted a circle of friends, saying that he liked rainy nights.
A man's love is hidden in his initiative for you.
When he falls in love with you, he will be willing to revolve around you, regard you as the center of gravity in life, put you first in everything, and enjoy the joy of being close to you every step he takes to you.
Falling in love with you is hoping to have more intersections with you.
3. Give you a promise for the future
The best friend is getting married, and the groom is a colleague at work.
The best friend who has been single for 30 years is finally about to start her married life, and she is a little worried at the same time, for fear that it will be for the sake of marriage.
But my best friend told me-
The reason why you can put your heart down and get married is not only because the other party is reliable, but also because in the process of chatting between the two people, the best friend really feels the sincerity of the other party's willingness to plan her in the future.
And in the bride price link, the other party did not have the slightest care, completely obeyed the wishes of the best friend's mother, and prepared the corresponding bride price.
Whether a man loves or not, attitude speaks for itself.
In the heart of a man who loves you, he is willing to go to the future with you, he knows that the rest of his life is very expensive, and every choice should be cautious, but you are the best choice, so he would rather take the rest of his life as a bet and give you each other a chance.
Because compared to losing you, the unknown of the future is not so important.
Love will appear in every little detail.
Whether a man loves or doesn't love can be seen as long as he cares about it.
Over time, time will witness a lot of things, and a man who doesn't love you, even if he says a lot of words that love you, won't make you feel sincere after all;
And the man who loves you will never just talk about it, his words and deeds are the attitude of loving you.