Every life will experience the ups and downs of life. At some special time, you will also wonder if it would have been better if you had not come to this world in the first place;In some moments of infinite frustration, you may wonder if your life on earth was a mistake.
I once heard that there was a case in law:The child sues the parents for giving birth to themselves
It is undeniable that each of us is not born voluntarily, it is all out of various pros and cons of our parents, so when our lives are not satisfactory, how should we deal with ourselves?
In real life, there are very few people who can play a bad hand well, and get it".Bad cardsThat is, in a certain aspect, it is much worse than others, and at this time, most people are actually difficult to "self-cross" due to various subjective and objective restrictive factors, such as economy, ideology, growth environment, etc. The mentality may have collapsed a long time ago, and then it is like a walking corpse, living a life of inaction.
What I want to say is that the reality is sometimes very cruel, so cruel that it may make people have no desire to live a good life at all, but even so, after all, we only come once in this world, we still have to live well, experience, feel, and strive for more, even if we are deep in the abyss and trough, even if the road ahead is muddy, even if it is hard, we have toIt's worth the trip
Have you ever asked yourself: Would you have the courage to do it all over again if you knew in advance what life you were going to face?
None of us came to this world voluntarily, and no one chose the script of his own life, rather than envy other people's scripts, it is better to play his own script. Life is like playing cards, no matter how bad a deck of cards you draw, you have to play it well, maybe there will be a wonderful ending to the bad hand.
We are on the stage that we did not choose, the performance is not the script we chose, none of us came to this world voluntarily, and no one of us has chosen the script of life, we cannot decide the birth, height, IQ, parents, family conditions, noble people to help, life can actually decide very little, maybe evenI can't get there.
Many people will envy other people's scripts, but there is no need to envy other people's scripts, the most important thing for us is to play our scripts well.
But if you have the opportunity to know your life in advance, and know that youth is only these days, I wonder if you will still care about the things that the world wants you to care about, such as how much is more glorious and what you have to be loved.
When you grow up, you will be happy because the green shoots are emerging from the land, you will cheer and jump at the rising sun, and you will give others kindness and warmth, but you will praise other lives at the same time, often, even forever, forget your own preciousness, may you remember your preciousness when you are hit, resist malice, may you firmly believe in your preciousness when you are confusedLove what you love, do what you do, listen to your heart, and ask no questions.
Luo Xiang said that life is far more absurd and heavy than drama, but absurdity does not make us despair, but allows us to regenerate courage and confidence.
When you feel that you are at a low point in your life, you must have a clear understanding that this is by no means the lowest point in your life. The sages of more than 2,000 years ago reminded us that we don't have to cry for a moment of life, our whole life is tear-jerking.
There is nothing that is not extremely good, there is nothing bitter and then sweet, and there is no inevitable connection between bad and good.
Many people like to be lazy when they need to do their best, and they feel insecure when they see others working hard, and finally continue to relax themselves with this anxiety, but expose their anxiety in the details.
The suffering he has suffered is only an insignificant stroke in the long river of history.
Choose the life you want!