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At the moment, there is such a popular saying on the Internet about having children:"If a child is born only to inherit his toil, poverty, and panic, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness. ”
This kind of view, which seems reasonable and profound, is actually absurd and I firmly oppose it.
First, it is a static point of view, and it is impossible to foresee the change of things.
Man is a high-level animal who is born to pursue a better life, water flows to a low place, and people go to a high place, which is the law of man. Everyone's life is a life of pursuing a rich life and a better life in every possible way. In the process of this pursuit, it is true that some people pursue the results are not significant, but there are also many people who pursue good or very good results, and many people have improved living conditions, have more than enough food and clothing, and are well-off and wealthyMany people have developed their careers, gained a lot of wealth, and achieved fame.
The poor people at the beginning, and later the children and grandchildren were full, and life was very good;People who were very weak at the beginning, but later their children and grandchildren were excellent, and they went on to higher education, did things, and became officials, and they were very strong. This phenomenon is very common.
In the seventies and eighties, I lived in a poor village with an uncle and five children, and I was very poor. My uncle relied on the craft of basket weaving to support the family. Nowadays, my uncle has long since passed away, but his children and grandchildren are living very well, and one of the grandsons, who has studied for a doctorate, married a daughter-in-law and is also a doctor, which is a beautiful talk in our village for a while. If my uncle had a spirit in heaven, he would be very pleased.
If according to the popular saying on the Internet, uncle should not have children at all, if so, does uncle still have today's group of children and grandchildren, and the glory of today's descendants?
Second, the outlook on life contained in this view is very narrow.
In the eyes of these people, life should be rich and easy, and there should be no poverty, poverty, toil, and panic. In fact, poverty, poverty, and panic are experienced in almost everyone's life, and they are part of the lives of countless ordinary people. However, the lives of countless ordinary people also have the other side of hope, happiness, success, and happiness.
Just as every leaf has a positive and a negative side, almost anyone's life has both sides of pain and joy.
Which leaf has only the front?Who has nothing but abundance and happiness in their life?
Even those princes and generals, they and their families, although they do not lack wealth and power, I am afraid that there are many troubles, pains, anxieties and panics, right?It's just that ordinary people can't understand it.
In this way, how can a person refuse to have children because of poverty, toil, and panic in front of him?
If you are poor, you will simply cut off your children and grandchildren, isn't this a bad idea?Isn't this pig logic?
Third, the powerful crowd does not occupy all the good positions.
People who uphold this popular view may have seen too much of the superior life of the powerful groups such as the second generation of officials and the second generation of the rich, and thus despaired of their poor and hard life.
Actually, it doesn't have to be.
Not to mention that the world is always changing, the poor and the weak can become the rich and the strong, and the rich and the strong can become the poor and the weak, even if it is not easy to change the rich and the poor, then it is difficult for a very small number of strong people to occupy all the good positions in the world. If ordinary people are willing to work hard, there are still many good opportunities. For example, so many candidates are admitted to the college entrance examination every year, and the rich and noble families can account for itAren't most of them still ordinary children?These children graduated from prestigious schools, is the future still very bleak?It can't be, right?
Therefore, you can't cover your eyes for the clouds, you can't blind your eyes to Mount Tai, and the poor have to have children!
In short, my point of view on having children is that rich and noble families must have children, and have more children;Ordinary families, including poor families, also have children. The number of children born to each family can be decided by weighing their own family situation. Children are the hope of every family!Not having a child is a pity after all. Many of them will regret it when they reach a certain age!A person or family that does not have a child often does not go to wealth because of a lack of motivation to struggle. Don't believe it, look at the world's singles, how many are rich and expensive?Huh!
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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.