The balance in 2023 is insufficient, the 2024 train is about to arrive, the pace of time is too fast, a blink of an eye is a day, and a turn back is a year.
This year, it seems that everyone has had a stumbling life, just coming out of the shadow of the epidemic, some people need to restart their lives, some people need to change tracks, and some people need to repair their wounds, it seems that everyone is not easy.
Li Li also reported a few words to his friends, which is also used to remind himself in daily life, and sending it to you may also make you relax.
Allow yourself to be just an ordinary person.
This year, you have paid and looked forward to it, but the result has always backfired?
Yes, I'm like this, Li Li is a full-time mother who is unwilling to be a full-time mother*, in order to realize her own value, she is desperately engaged in self-determination, all day long is to write and write, write articles, cut and cut and cut the video;There is only one thing that can make you happy all day long, that is, to get results on self-**, for example, my number has increased by tens of thousands of fans, the number of readings has reached millions, and how many meters has changed in that account, in my eyes, in addition to realizing self-worth, everything else is secondary, including the growth of my son, I am ranked second, I insist that I want to be financially independent, I want to be a better version of myself, how do I want to be, is a good example for children. “
Every day, the strings in my head are very tight, for fear that I will miss a lot when I stop.
I want to say that I have really missed a lot of such a "hard" life, missed the good life at the moment, missed the good time with my family, and missed the bits and pieces of growing up with my children.
So, I want to say to my friend: "I didn't get the results I wanted, I didn't learn to control my emotions, I didn't give my family a better life, it's okay, don't blame yourself, let it happen, allow yourself to lose power occasionally, allow yourself to make mistakes, and allow yourself to be depressed." ”
After all, we are all the majority who cannot influence the outcome.
In the past two days I read a sentence:"An important growth in life begins with accepting one's ordinariness. ”
Did you know?Most of us are the same, and I am the same, both of us have been pretentious, and once stubbornly believed that only by working hard can we get rid of the ordinary and live as we like.
However, most people, no matter how hard they try, may not be able to become the protagonist in the spotlight for the rest of their lives. But even so, it still doesn't stop you from raising your head and sparing no effort to move forward. If you work hard, you will overcome all meaning!
Life is a wilderness, not a track. It's not an established formula, and there is no correct answer, so why should we ask ourselves to be right all the time, all excellent!
Occasionally push yourself, but also often let yourself go, forward is an ability, stop is a kind of wisdom.
May in the future 2024, we can all return time to life from time to time.