Some time ago, a particularly popular TV series "Children of the Qiao Family" has such a plot in it:
Qiao Sanli and Qiao Simei came home from school, and the neighbor's uncle, who opened a grocery store on the street, quietly followed, and he spent Simei to buy beans, but Qiao Sanli was dragged into the house by him and forcibly **.
Qiao Sanli cried and begged for mercy and shouted for help, but fortunately, her two brothers rushed home in time to save her.
When Daddy Qiao found out, he used this threat to extort a large amount of mental damage money from his neighbor and then gave up. It was the eldest brother who bravely made the report and sent the bad neighbor to prison.
But even so, it still left an indelible psychological shadow in Qiao Sanli's heart, and she still couldn't get rid of this nightmare until she grew up.
Although this is just a fictional plot in the TV series, something like this happened in France.
An 8-year-old French girl has been abused by her neighbor's uncle for 10 years, and her parents are unaware of it.
What the hell is going on?
Odette (film and television image).
The girl's name is Odette, she is a lively and lovely beautiful girl who loves to dance, she is the only child in the family, and her parents love her very much.
It's just that her parents are both businessmen, and they are usually very busy at work and often absent from home.
When Odette was 8 years old, the family moved into a new, large house, and the next door was the Gilbert family, friends of her parents' business.
Gilbert has 3 sons and no daughters, so he is very friendly to Odette, and can even be said to be pampered, and often buys some gifts that girls like to give her.
Gilbert's unconcealable love for Odette made Odette's parents very grateful, and the relationship between the two families became closer and closer.
Odette also liked this handsome uncle, every time he came to visit, he would play with her quietly, unlike her parents, who always had a lot to do when they came home, and rarely played with her.
After a long time, Gilbert was even free to go in and out of Odette's bedroom, and Odette's parents didn't find it inappropriate in any way.
Gilbert, who has completely gained the trust of Odette's family, finally can't help but attack Odette.
The beast in human skin tricked Odette into the pink bathroom under the pretext of "playing games" and took the opportunity to violate her.
Afterwards, she also told Odette that she must keep it secret and never let her parents know. In this way, the ignorant Odette fell into the hands of the devil and became a doll in Gilbert's hands.
Her originally happy life has since become unfortunate and pitiful.
For a long time after that, Odette remained tight-lipped and did not tell anyone what happened to her, but she could clearly feel the growing disgust for Gilbert in her heart.
She began to reject contact with Gilbert and hated all the gifts he sent.
One weekend, Odette's mother accompanied her to dance class, and in the middle of the process, her mother suddenly had an urgent matter to deal with, and before leaving, she told her that someone would come to pick her up after class, and then left in a hurry.
Odette thought it would be her father who would pick her up, but what she never expected was that it was Gilbert who came to pick her up.
Odette, who had finished the dance class, was originally quite happy, but after seeing Gilbert, she became speechless, and she refused to talk to this nasty guy.
Gilbert (film and television image).
No matter what Gilbert said to Odette in the car, she couldn't attract her, which annoyed the beast-faced guy, and he deliberately took a small and remote path and violated the little girl in the car.
Odette, who returned home, felt very uncomfortable, and she hugged her father without saying a word, as if she was brewing in her heart, how to tell him what happened to her.
But she suddenly thought of Gilbert's warning, which made it difficult for her to speak, and swallowed back what she had to say.
At the age of 10, Odette gradually understood that the "game" that Gilbert and she had been playing was not a game at all, but a violation, and every time she thought about what had happened, she felt sick and unacceptable.
The unspeakable sense of shame still didn't make her take the initiative to tell her parents, but endured it silently by herself.
Her parents also clearly felt Odette's change in attitude towards Gilbert, but they had always thought it was a problem with Odette's adolescent rebellion.
They asked Odette to be a little respectful of Gilbert and not to embarrass the relationship between the two families.
Odette (film and television image).
Odette's unspeakable secret had brought her to the brink of collapse, and hearing her parents' words suddenly became irritable.
Unable to control her actions, she threw everything in the room that had anything to do with Gilbert on the floor, especially the towel that Gilbert used to use when she was done.
Odette's mother saw that Odette's room was in a mess, so she began to reprimand her daughter for being ignorant and losing her temper when she was so old.
At this moment, Gilbert called**, claiming that he was going to take his three sons to camp on the weekend, and wanted to invite Odette to go with him.
Odette's mother, after only seeking her husband's opinion, agreed privately, believing that it was much better for Odette to go out to "camp and relax" than to make her angry at home.
Odette verbally refused to go camping, but the more she resisted, the more determined her mom became.
Alone and helpless, Odette is once again in the mouth of the tiger, and the night she camps out is a nightmare for Odette's life.
After returning home, Odette cleaned her bloody **, and her mother found out that her daughter was just menstruating, and she didn't notice anything abnormal.
Odette was in pain, and the only solution she could think of was to flee and leave the house as far away as possible.
So when she was in junior high school, she asked her parents to go to Paris to learn dance, and this time her parents did not stop her, but had great expectations for their daughter.
Odette's dancing was so contagious that her teachers praised her, and she managed to stay in Paris to study.
She breathed a sigh of relief when she learned of this result, she felt that her life was finally saved, she never wanted to go back to the pink bedroom, looking at the dark wall in the bedroom in front of her, she did not feel depressed at all, but felt very relaxed.
But a letter ensued, which once again plunged Odette into the abyss.
Knowing that Odette had gone to Paris, Gilbert did not let it go, and he sent Odette a letter telling her that he had learned her address in Paris and would visit her often in the future, along with the envelope, a brand new towel.
Odette tore the letter to shreds, threw the towel on the ground and stepped on it fiercely, venting the anger in her heart as much as she could, because the haunting Gilbert, the light that was close at hand, became unreachable again in an instant.
In Paris, Odette made her first friend of the opposite sex, and before that she rejected all contact with the opposite sex.
She followed her friends in Paris and gradually learned to drink and take drugs, which were only to numb herself and make her forget those humiliating memories.
Unable to look directly at the tragic childhood, which made her unable to communicate with people normally, Odette turned all her inner emotions and desires into silent power, which was reflected in her dance.
Odette's teacher saw the extreme emotions in her dance, and the teacher asked her to understand the emotions behind the dance**, but Odette was never able to speak.
The kind teacher said to Odette, "Although I am not a psychiatrist, as a teacher, I would love to help you." ”
Odette, who has grown up, also realizes that her life has deviated from the original track, and she originally wanted to become a famous dancer in Paris, but now she is hovering on the verge of drug abuse.
She also wanted to live a normal life, so she plucked up the courage to see a psychiatrist and revealed all the secrets that had been hidden in her heart for 10 years. The moment all the secrets were known to the second person, Odette was relieved.
The psychiatrist told her that she had suffered from bipolar disorder and needed to take medication to control her emotions, but it was not so easy to really get rid of mental illness.
The bell must also be tied to the bell, and only by bringing the ** to justice can we get real liberation.
Odette, who has endured for 10 years, has become accustomed to hiding everything from her parents, and no matter how much the psychiatrist encourages her, she has never been able to overcome the hurdle of shame.
Odette said: "This kind of thing, confess to my parents, I can't do it anyway. ”
But soon after, Odette took the initiative to confess to her parents, what happened to make her brave?
Odette (film and television image).
Odette goes home to visit her parents, and Gilbert can't wait to visit her when she finds out.
The two people who hadn't seen each other for a long time looked at each other again, and Ao Dai only had hatred in his heart.
Gilbert's son and daughter-in-law pushed their twin daughters to follow, and Odette focused on her two lovely children.
When she inadvertently looked up, Odette found Gilbert staring at the two little girls in a trance, and she couldn't bear it at this moment.
She didn't want to hurt the two children in the future because of her cowardice, and she decided to reveal Gilbert's true colors.
She plucked up the courage and forced herself to confess everything to her parents.
Odette's father was furious when he heard this, and he wanted to go and avenge his daughter by slashing Gilbert with a thousand knives.
But Odette's mother said, "What will they think when they are found out?"”
Odette yelled aggrievedly, "What about me?"”
The courage that Odette had managed to accumulate was wiped out at this moment, and her mother's attitude made her feel angry and aggrieved.
She just wanted to get justice for herself, and now it looked like she had done something wrong.
Odette's father ignored his wife's opinion, and he stood firmly by Odette's side and supported her to go to the police.
In the end, accompanied by her family, Odette came to the police station to file a case and sued Gilbert for **.
But what is unexpected is that Odette is not the only little girl who was abused by Gilbert.
When the court heard the case, Gilbert quibbled in court:
"They did it voluntarily, and the girl parted her legs and kindly invited me, how could I refuse?”
This ** pedophile put all the blame on Odette, but then Gilbert's sister's testimony revealed his true form.
Gilbert's own sister said in court: What Gilbert did to her since she was a child ruined her life.
Things will pass over time, but the memories will recur in the midnight dream, and no matter how many years have passed, when she recreates that memory in her mind, her emotional and physical reactions will make it as if she has fallen into the abyss.
Isn't that the case with Odette?
In the end, Gilbert was convicted by the court and will spend the rest of his life in prison.
Odette finally came out of the psychological cage that had bound her for 10 years and welcomed a new life after breaking out of the cocoon and becoming a butterfly.
Court hearings. According to the European Conference, one in five children in Europe is the victim of sexual violence.
In France, about 700 children die of abuse every year.
Among the many cases of children being **, nearly 7 percent are committed by acquaintances, which makes people think about it carefully.
Odette has been under the nose of her parents for a long time, which shows that Odette's parents have serious dereliction of duty.
On the other hand, if one of these people is a demon or a **, will our children be in danger?
The devil does not write these two words on his face, as a parent, it is incumbent on him to protect his children.
Sex education for children is a must. Whether you are looking for a related picture book or an online **, you can teach your child what is a private part and where the opposite sex cannot be touched.
For slightly older primary school students, in addition to daily supervision, parents should do more psychological guidance.
Children at this age are particularly curious, and parents should guide their children to establish a correct understanding of the sexes as early as possible by satisfying their curiosity.
It is also important to develop the courage to say "no" and learn to say no, which is also a powerful way to protect yourself in many cases.
It's easy to be an enemy with a child, you just need to scold and ignore it, but it takes a lot of patience and understanding to become a friend with your child.
A benign parent-child relationship makes it easier for parents to understand their children's psychological trends, find out the problems encountered by their children in their growth in time, and then help them as much as they can.
Finally, parents must avoid leaving their children alone with the opposite sex, especially in closed environments. This will largely prevent something like this from happening.
It takes physical strength to give birth to a child, energy to raise a child, and intelligence to educate a child.
There is no need to take an exam to become a parent, but that doesn't mean every parent is qualified.
I hope that every parent can be vigilant in the face of this ** and take the responsibility of protecting their children. Don't wait until a tragedy strikes to regret it.