Life is like a magnificent lake, sometimes calm as a mirror, sometimes turbulent. It sometimes brings joy and joy, like a spring breeze blowing on the face, warming people's hearts;Sometimes it brings anxiety and distress, like a storm, and it catches people off guard. For those who possess wisdom, they are always able to maintain peace of mind in the face of changes in life. They know that life is not all smooth sailing, but full of ups and downs and challenges. Therefore, they will not be discouraged by momentary difficulties, nor will they be complacent because of momentary successes. 
When faced with difficulties, they do not indulge in negativity and do not constantly question their abilities. Instead, they will choose to let go of something and allow their minds to relax and rejuvenate. They will fundamentally change their thinking and actions to face life's challenges with a more positive and optimistic attitude. Because they understand that life is like this undulating lake, whether it is calm or choppy, it is a part of it. Only by constantly adjusting one's mindset and actions can one sail farther, more stable and more comfortable on this lake. 
01. Throw it away unwillingly.
Some things, like the changing clouds, are beyond human control, and we might as well embrace them with a smile and a calm heart
There are some things that do not belong to us in the first place, and instead of dwelling on them, it is better to let go indifferently and have no obstacles.
Don't be the one who has a disgruntled heart, adding to your troubles, and pursuing unattainable goals that will only exhaust you.
On the stage of work, if we are disappointed due to poor grades, as long as we do our best, there is no need to regret it.
In life, if we are annoyed by unfair treatment, as long as we are honest with each other, we can be worthy of our hearts.
In the long river of life, what we need to learn Xi is how to be ourselves. Anything, with the encounter, the heart will be wide;In the face of dissatisfaction, learn to let go and not get entangled in trivial matters, so that you can live more freely. 02. Throw away vanity.
The truth of life is known only to our own hearts. The eyes of the outside world can never portray the true self.
There is no need to over-consume yourself for the opinions of others, chasing unrealistic comparisons, just to win the envy of others, only to exhaust yourself in the end.
Abandon vain desires and avoid vanity pursuits and waste;Don't blindly compare yourself with others, don't be jealous of others.
The best way to live is to recognize your own shortcomings, actively improve your abilities, Xi learn from those who are excellent, and do not envy the superficial brilliance of others, but pay attention to the efforts behind them.
03. Throw away old ideas.
Many people struggle to succeed because they are confined to a narrow vision, lack innovative money-making thinking, and do not find effective ways to transform. Once you choose the wrong direction, no amount of hard work can be in vain. Therefore, we need to open our minds, learn Xi from those who have already succeeded, ask for advice from those who have rich social experience, and constantly research and summarize the areas we want to grow. 
Success is not a one-day achievement, you need to constantly grasp every opportunity to learn Xi, expand your horizons, and challenge yourself. Only by climbing step by step, like climbing a mountain, can we create brilliance like a bamboo. We need to let go of our dissatisfaction and resentment and adjust our mindsetLet go of vanity and learn Xi the good in others;Let go of outdated ideas and expand the possibilities of life. Take every step firmly, regardless of success or failure, maintain perseverance, do not blindly compete with others, and focus on self-improvement. 
Work hard with peace of mind and live each day to the fullest, and your life will gradually become better and better, and your life path will become smoother and smoother.