In 2023, the number of real active users of Douyin in China will reach 2500 million, this data is amazing, and it also shows that the Internet and people's lives have been inseparable.
Some people say that in addition to sleeping, the rest of the time is on the Internet, even work is also on the Internet, the Internet is like an invisible net, with overwhelming information to surround people, constantly refreshing people's three views, the old information has not been digested, new information has emerged.
There's a good saying:What kind of person you are, what you see in the world. 」
In the same way, the information you see on the Internet also determines what kind of person you are, and the information you receive passively will only imprison people's thinking, affect people's judgment and values.
1. Don't watch the ** jokes that kill time
Nowadays, the daily life of many young people is to sleep, eat, go to work, be in a daze, and brush Douyin.
There was a time when I had something wrong at work, the work pressure was high, and the whole person's spirit was also tense, every time I came home from work, I just wanted to collapse on the sofa and brush some short ** to relax.
However, the algorithm of these short ** platforms is to recommend **content according to personal preferences, brush one**, and then recommend similar **.
Just brush one after another, unconsciously, two hours have passed, sometimes I can watch it and stay up late, and the next day I go to work with dark circles under my eyes, and the state is very bad.
After a while, I realized that it was not okay to go on like this, although watching ** is a pastime and entertainment after work, it is not beneficial to personal growth, and it will also affect the mental state at work.
Short** is like fast food, which can only relieve your hunger for a while, but cannot supplement your long-term nutrition, and at the same time, the human brain will lose the ability to judge with the continuous influx of information.
2. Look less at fragmented knowledge that is not systematic
The more developed the Internet, the more fragmented knowledge we receive, which also determines that the brain Xi accustomed to the learning Xi mode of fragmented absorption of knowledge.
Since the author Yu Wuzheng has a friend, he has been studying Xi hard for a while, listening to the news when he gets up and brushing his teeth, listening to micro-lectures during work breaks, and even reading books outside the fitting room.
However, after a while, my friend found that not only did he not learn any skills, but he also exhausted himself physically and mentally. Segmented learning Xi is like this, only learning some superficial knowledge, but not being able to establish a systematic system.
As everyone knows, this way of grabbing a handful in the east and a handful in the west not only costs time and energy, but also consumes oneself. What's even more terrifying is that in order to satisfy the public's curiosity, the content pushed by these online platforms will skip the process of the development of things and directly present the final result.
And the real thinking is not to follow the crowd, nor to accept it all, but to ask a few more reasons when encountering problems, and to think more about social phenomena, and to form a set of their own theoretical system after repeated scrutiny.
Xi that swallows dates without understanding is like water that leaves no trace, and will soon be forgotten from the brain.
3. Look less at exaggerated quick cheats
In today's era, whether it is the product promoted or the effect of **, there are ingredients that are over-publicized and packaged, and many gimmicks on the Internet that let you learn to sketch in 5 days are attracting people to consume for them.
The ancients said that if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, there is no quick way in this world, and there is no overnight success, what is important is the determination not to stop until the goal is reached, and the tenacity to learn the endless hard work.
The road ahead may be slower, but we must be steady and steady, and keep to ourselves, which seems to be a detour of loss, but in fact it is the fastest shortcut.
4. Look less at the life of the circle of friends who show off their wealth in vain
People are more willing to see the illusion of sunshine, beauty, and luxury, and no one will pay attention to the embarrassment and chicken feathers behind the bright **, let alone care.
The circle of friends who show off their wealth in vain not only creates anxiety for no reason, but also adds an extra layer of shackles to the soul.
Everything is lovely, but it's a pity you don't look at it.
The world is so big, why just pay attention to these, put down the circle of friends, go to meet the people you want to see, say what you want to say, and feel the real fireworks in the world!
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