Zeng Shiqiang said, "Marriage is not about seeking wealth and wealth, but about the separation of white heads. To sum it up in one sentence, it is a young couple and an old companion. ”
Zeng Lao's words profoundly reveal the true meaning of marriage, reminding us that when looking for a lifelong partner, the first thing we should think about is not the material conditions, but whether the two people have the expectation and belief to reach the end of their lives together.
Marriage is the harbor where two lonely souls find a place to embrace. In this world, it is rare and cherished to find a partner who can understand each other and support each other until old age.
Mencius said: "There is no distance between each other, and thousands of miles are still neighbors." "Whether it is poor or rich, rain or shine, the true marriage relationship transcends the physical distance and the barrier of time, and is the interdependence of the heart.
In marriage, emotional care is more valuable than money. In this rapidly changing society, many people are lost in material and utilitarian considerations.
However, the companionship of true love is an emotional value that cannot be seen or touched, which is the core part of marriage.
As Zhou Guoping said: "The vulgar actions of reality are short-sighted and ignorant. ”
The promise of the white head to be inseparable is the most touching ode to love. In a common life, the mutual understanding and growth of husband and wife, as well as supporting each other in difficult situations, and sharing weal and woe, constitute the most solid foundation of marriage.
As Tolstoy expressed in War and Peace: "Happy families are all alike. "Every happy marriage lies in mutual understanding, respect, and the courage and wisdom to face life's challenges together.
In the ordinary life of day after day, love will not always be passionate, but more trickle, warm and deep. We must learn to find beauty in the trivial life and cultivate feelings in the ordinary.
There is a cloud in the Book of Songs: "If you live with one heart and live alone, you can't speak of sorrow." It means that even if you are thousands of miles apart, your sincere heart is always connected.
If you can find the person who is willing to walk through the long years with you when you are young, then no matter how big the storm is, it is just a naughty wave on the road of life.
Therefore, we must cherish those who are willing to grow old with you, and cherish the love that is as deep as the sea that is willing to hold up a clear sky for you in the stormy world.
In the face of marriage, we should also keep ourselves and maintain our continuous recognition and improvement of ourselves and each other.
Marriage is not a sacrifice for one party, but complementarity and growth. On the long road of life, we play multiple roles, each with its own independent value and dignity.
That being said, married life is not always smooth sailing, and there are bound to be trials and difficulties. At such a moment, we need to insist on mutual commitment, and turn the ideal of "white heads are inseparable, young couples and old companions" into daily business.
When the years go by, when the youth is no longer there, we can still find the brilliance and affection of the year in each other's eyes.
Perhaps this is the true meaning of marriage, and it is also the ultimate pursuit of everyone who longs to love and be loved!