Problems with getting along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not uncommon in confinement centers. Some mothers-in-law are busy but can't see their daughter-in-law's good face, and even occasionally roll their eyes at their mother-in-law. There are also mothers-in-law who sit silently on the sofa every day, and it seems that their daughters-in-law are unwilling to pay attention to them. Sometimes, the mother-in-law quietly wiped her tears on the sofa outside, and there were even cases of being lectured by her son in the corridor.
There are also mothers-in-law who leave the confinement center halfway because they are angry. Some mothers-in-law frequently ask their daughters-in-law if they have enough milk to eat, which increases the pressure and grievances of their daughters-in-law. An unintentional remark from a mother-in-law may also cause dissatisfaction among the daughter-in-law. In stark contrast, my mother-in-law was much more comfortable. The staff often saw some mothers-in-law secretly confiding in them when they were angry.
Some employees are even afraid that their sons will be angry after marrying their daughters-in-law in the future, but they envy the employees who have daughters and feel that their mother-in-law is doing better. The relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law seems to be completely reversed, the daughter-in-law becomes the new mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law becomes the little daughter-in-law of the past.
Looking back at the past era, mothers-in-law could be the masters of the house after becoming mothers-in-law, and the whole family had to listen to her arrangements, but now the daughters-in-law seem to have directly become the family"Galeries Lafayette"。Of course, not all mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law have this situation, and there are some mother-in-law and daughters-in-law who have a very harmonious relationship, and the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, so that outsiders can't see that they are mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
But there are so few such cases. Nowadays, it is really difficult to be a good mother-in-law, let alone a competent mother-in-law. Mother-in-law, how are you doing?If you are angry, you can vent in the comment area. Everybody understands you!