When we meet people who are not in the same way as our own aspirations, we can choose to distance ourselves and not associate with him, you take your Yangguan Road, and I will cross my single-plank bridge.
But sometimes, we will inevitably encounter some annoying people, you can't hide if you want to, such as colleagues at work, no matter how annoying the other party is, they have to face it, and what is even more annoying is that the other party may often deliberately make things difficult to make you angry, and you have nothing to do with him.
If you have to face such a hated person every day, it will inevitably affect your mood, and sometimes it will even make you very angry, this bad mood will continue to accumulate, and it is always yourself who is sad, obviously it is someone else's fault, but you are deeply affected by it.
That's why some people say that facing a nasty person in an angry way is actually a kind of stupid self-punishment. How do you get along with someone you hate?It is a test of a person's wisdom, and there are two ways, which can be called the most horizontal way to deal with it.
The first is to make yourself so good that you leave the people you hate far behind. Perhaps we seldom think about why those nasty people appear in your life. There is a saying that "no matter who you meet, it's not an accident"!Those nasty people appear in your life, definitely not because you are unlucky enough to meet them, but because you are in the same circle as those nasty people.
Wang Hua, a well-known contemporary female artist, was originally just a very ordinary working girl in the canteen of the Academy of Fine Arts, doing dirty and tiring work every day, because she is a foreigner, she is inevitably excluded and isolated by her colleagues, so Wang Hua often goes alone, whenever she is free, she goes to the Academy of Fine Arts to audit students' classes, and quietly practices Xi painting, and her works are often ridiculed by colleagues.
However, her artistic talent was discovered by a professor at the Academy of Fine Arts by chance, and since then she has embarked on the road of real art, and now, Wang Hua has become a well-known professional artist, and a work can even be sold for hundreds of thousands, and those who made it difficult for her to laugh at her back then are still repeating the same work every day in the canteen of the Academy of Fine Arts.
If there are too many people around you who you hate, then the best way to deal with them is to try to get out of the current circle, try to make yourself better, and leave those nasty people far behind.
Annoying people, like flies, not only can't get rid of them, but they are always annoying. The famous writer Mr. Yu Guangzhong and the famous Li Ao are a pair of old enemies, Li Ao is known to everyone, scolding people mercilessly, unabashed, he has repeatedly scolded Yu Guangzhong in public, not only belittling his works, but also accusing his character.
In fact, there are countless people who have been scolded by Li Ao, and there are many people who have turned their faces and scolded him, but only Yu Guangzhong never responds and always remains silent.
Someone interviewed Yu Guangzhong and said that Li Ao scolded you every day, why did you never refute it?Yu Guangzhong just smiled and replied, he said: Li Ao scolds me every day, which shows that his life cannot live without me, but my life can be without him.
In people's lives, it is inevitable to encounter people who are as annoying as flies, if you use flies to fight back against each other, then you will also become as annoying as flies.
Instead of dwelling on the person you hate, it is better to take him lightly, so light that you don't take him seriously at all, and when you don't look at him squarely, he will naturally go to those who are willing to entangle with him. Therefore, in the face of a nasty person, there is no need to turn your face and scold him, the best response is to invite him out of your life.
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