If the "mentality" is regarded as the "way", the way of survival, the way to adapt to society, then the rules are the manifestation of the "way", which can be described in words, with a clear indication of the direction, can or can't, can or can't, and the "mentality" seems more complex and can't be expressed in words.
As shown in the figure, the traffic light at the intersection counts down for 3 seconds, and the van pressure is forcibly plugged, even if it is unsuccessful, it is also scratched with the car next to it. Well, now everyone else has left, stopped themselves, and blocked the road.
In terms of rules, the white SUV won, but the car was injured, and the delay was also certain. The van did not follow the rules and waited for punishment. In terms of mentality, the behavior of the two, one is tough and the other is not allowed, and the enemies are very red when they meet.
It's not a big deal to watch the excitement, there is never a shortage of people to watch the excitement, the two of you have successfully created a lively and brought highlights to the people who eat melons. Neither of them was pleased, and for this result was a 50 board each. It's all traffic participants, and they are punished for winning the rules or breaking the rules. At the same time, it is also used as a negative teaching material, so as to remind drivers on the road that I believe that each driver has his own opinion.
If you think of life as a competition between two people, then life is a cycle back and forth between making moves and receiving moves, you make moves for others to take them, and you make your own moves for others to take them. Whether it is a move or a move, it is a manifestation of mentality, and it is fully revealed, and the key to winning or losing is mentality. The van is plugged, the SUV can choose to avoid, and then wait for a red light, at most 180 seconds, whether you know it plugged or not, it is inseparable from the accident and falls into the embarrassing situation of trouble. The behavior of the van, not following the rules, waiting for punishment with peace of mind, although it provides a certain value as a negative teaching material, it is strange that no one will pity it.
The reason why a rule becomes a rule is that it only conforms to the existence of the situation at that time, and it is limited by time and space, and has its limitations. And the state of mind, that is the "Tao" in the heart, the eternal Tao. The rules are kept for a while, the mentality lasts for a lifetime, and the growth of the mentality is stronger.
Ethics and morality are the inheritance of people's long-term conventions, and everyone should follow and abide by them, not compulsory, but voluntary. Different from the express provisions of the rules, it is related to local customs and personal experience, and often only restricts some people. As another standard of conduct in addition to the rules, the two are unified, and together they build a complete code of conduct, and both can better describe the meaning of mentality.
In short, the Tao-mentality in the heart is eternal, and caring for it gradually grows and becomes the way of life.