in "Mansion Gate"."Xiangxiu"., in "Snow White Blood Red"."Ding Xiaoli".She has won the Huabiao Award and the Golden Eagle Award for these works, and has made remarkable achievements.
However, it is incredible that her parents are all deaf and mute, even if the family is so difficult, she has tried her best to get to this point, and the tenacity of her heart can be imagined.
And she was at the peak of her debut, and she played the heroine of Leslie Cheung's movie before graduating from collegechose to get married when he was popular, and agreed with her husband "Shi Xiaohong" to Dink.
But why did she change her mind 12 years later and give birth to a son for her husband at the age of 39?
What's the untold story behind this?
Life was difficult when I was young
Xie Lan, born in a poor family, her parents are deaf and mute, when she was born, Xie Lan's parents were afraid that she was also deaf and mute, and they worried for a long time, but fortunately she was healthy.
She also had a younger brother, but at that time, the Internet was not developed, and her brother's situation was not exposed.
Because her parents are deaf and mute, it is very difficult for them to find a job, and many jobs cannot be done, so life is very poor.
But even though the family was poor, her parents still worked hard and used the money they saved to support Xie Lan's education.
When she was 8 years old, she entered a sports school to learn Xi gymnastics and wanted to become an athlete.
Her father would pick her up from school every day, but he never entered the school gate, and he was afraid that Sheeran's classmates would laugh at her if they knew she was disabled.
Her father's concerns were right, the matter was finally known by her classmates, who isolated Xie Lan and deliberately said in front of her, "Dumb people are contagious, and whoever plays with Xie Lan will be infected."
Such words made the classmates dare not play with Xie Lan, I have to say that the child's malice is very direct and pure!
Over time, Xie Lan developed a taciturn personality and lived alone at school, without playmates and friends.
However, these were not the most uncomfortable for her, the most unacceptable for her was that while training gymnastics, she often got injured.
When she was 11 years old, she suffered severe injuries to her ankle and arm after falling off the balance beam, and doctors said that if she continued to practice, she might not be able to walk in the future.
Her family couldn't withstand the ups and downs at all, and after this incident, Xie Lan's emotions were very broken, and she couldn't get out for a while, thinking that she had failed her parents.
At that time, she didn't want to study anymore, she just wanted to go out to work to earn money to support her parents, but her parents disagreed.
When talking about this issue, because Xie Lan insisted on going out to work, her parents couldn't speak, and they cried out in a hurry.
The three of them cried, and finally she listened to her parents and went back to school to learn Xi.
Perhaps the "suffering" was exhausted when she was young, and after graduating from junior high school, she ushered in a turning point in her life.
Become an actor
After graduating from junior high school, Xie Lan wanted to join a job to help her family, but her parents did not approve of her going to work in a factory, so she had to pay attention to the recruitment information of some good workplaces.
Coincidentally, it just happened to let her know the news of the recruitment of the Zhejiang Burlesque Troupe.
Because she has practiced gymnastics, her body is already straight and slender, coupled with her outstanding appearance, she stood out among many interviewers and was successfully selected.
She came into contact with acting in the troupe, and after 3 years of hard work, she was successfully admitted to Beiying at the age of 19 after studying Xi.
If other people are admitted to the school, they must be full of joy, but their family is full of sorrow!
The tuition fee was too expensive for the family, and in order to raise enough money before the start of school, her parents worked two jobs, working in a factory during the day and doing odd jobs at home at night.
In a hurry, she finally raised enough tuition fees before the start of the school year, and she embarked on the road to Beijing.
After the tuition turmoil, her life has improved.
Became famous at a young age
Because of Xie Lan's previous acting experience in the troupe, she was at the top of her class.
So when she was a sophomore, the crew of "Singing in the Middle of the Night" came to the school to find actors, and the director fell in love with her at a glance.
You must know that the male protagonist of this movie is"Leslie Cheung"., and the heroine Juliet played by Xie Lan, after the broadcast of this movie, it is conceivable that she became famous.
After that, her drama appointments gradually increased, and originally with her starting point, she should have received the role of the heroine.
But in order to make money faster, she not only takes the leading role, but also the supporting role, as long as her time can be busy, she will accept no matter how many scenes she has!
This caused the quality of her early films to be uneven.
Her best work is "Walking Through the Bitter Winter", a film made in 1999, for which she won the Huabiao Award.
In the same year, when she joined the group "Yellow Earth and Blue Earth", she met her life partner.
Meet the right person you were destined to love
When she joined the group again to film, her partner was Shi Xiaohong, the name sounded like a girl, but she was a burly man.
Do you still remember General Yuan in "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair"? This role is played by Shi Xiaohong!
He has a lot of masterpieces, and his works have been broadcast every year since his debut, but with the increase in age, he is no longer the leading actor, but only plays some supporting roles.
They met during filming in 1999, the difference between the two was 11 years old, and Xie Lan was only 26 years old at the time, so she was very young and beautiful.
Shi Xiaohong fell in love with her at first sight, so she asked the people around her about her, but everyone told him that Xie Lan was an ice beauty, and many people had been rejected for pursuing her.
Another well-informed colleague told him about the general situation of Xie Lan's family, so she didn't look for a partner, she just wanted to make money to help the family quickly.
But Shi Xiaohong didn't mind these and took care of her carefully during the filming.
Later, he fought for another opportunity to cooperate, and only confessed to Xie Lan during the second filming.
Xie Lan told him that he would not get married and have children for the sake of his family, and that he would put his career first in order to take care of the family, so that he would not delay himself because of her.
But Shi Xiaohong said that he could accept "Dink" and would not interfere with her filming after getting married.
With his promise, Sheeran agreed to the relationship, and because the relationship was going well, they got married in 2000.
Suddenly pregnant
After getting married, the two still filmed and worked, took care of each other, and lived a good life.
Such days have passed for 12 years, but one day Xie Lan was filming, and suddenly felt a little nauseous, and after an examination, the news of her pregnancy was confirmed.
Xie Lan discussed with Shi Xiaohong, and he said that she should make her own decisions, because she had already agreed to dink together before marriage.
She thought about it for a long time, and although she was 39 years old and belonged to the advanced maternal age, she still decided to keep the child.
Conclusion
Her decision back then allowed her family to have a lovely son, and now she has gradually retired and concentrated on educating her children at home, and her life is happy.