Life also has a transition period in life, adolescence is an important transition period from a thought to independence, on the performance of children in this period of various breakthroughs, the only mystery that the nurturer is not able to solve.
Let's imagine that a child under the age of eight and a child under the age of fourteen are also led to a strange empty park, and then the adults hide for half a day without showing their faces, which child is more likely to be scared to cry?Fourteen-year-olds may be scared but embarrassed to cry, while children under the age of eight may cry.
With the continuous growth of independent consciousness and self-awareness, adolescent children are generally more rebellious, and some children who used to be very well-behaved will also have behavioral and psychological problems, so adolescence is the most prone to accidents, and it is also the most difficult to manage and test the parenting wisdom of parents.
Once there is a problem in adolescence, it may affect a person's life, of course, some problems are limited to adolescence, you can ignore it, and the child will naturally return to normal after this period, but some children's problems are more serious, such as participating in robbery and hurting people, etc., life will leave a stain, so once the child finds that there is a problem, adults, especially caregivers, have the responsibility and obligation to help them, mainly because the child has problems in the attachment period, the focus is on the family to deal with, as long as the child is brought up by the parents before the age of six, there will be attachment to the parents, and the parents still have the opportunity to educate him well in the most critical period of educating the childA child's thought is the greatest educational capital of parents.
If the child is hostile during adolescence, parents must be patient and tenacious, remember the principle of kindness and firmness, but also have the awareness that the class should not turn around, if there is a conflict with the child, parents must remember to only express their own opinions, do not use the way of asking for orders and coercion, etc., which will stimulate the child's youthful impulse.