It is quite difficult to pursue girls, and the key difficulty is that boys often do not have a deep understanding of what girls really think inside.
First of all, the attractiveness of appearance is important, but the expectations of girls are not limited to being handsome and tall on the outside. In fact, they value inner qualities more. They are not only looking for tall and handsome boys, but also those who are educated, cultivated, interesting, caring and responsible. These elements are often overlooked by us boys.
Secondly, we often mistakenly think that regular gifts such as flowers and chocolates are enough to touch the hearts of girls. However, this is only the basics, and more importantly, we need to show that we know and care about her. For example, giving her a book she likes, or taking her to a place she's always wanted to go can highlight how much you know and respect her preferences. Material gifts alone are not enough, we need to invest emotionally to care for and understand her.
Furthermore, we often think that confession is the only key to pursuing girls. However, in reality, pursuing a girl is a long-term process that requires patience and care. Sending her caring messages every day, accompanying her in hobbies, helping her solve difficulties, etc., can make her truly feel valued and cared for. A mere confession wasn't enough to touch her heart.
In the end, we often mistakenly think that *** can solve all problems. However, girls are not only looking for momentary passion and excitement, but also value your long-term companionship and commitment. She needs a reliable, trustworthy boyfriend to really like someone. Pure *** can't touch her heart.
To sum up, the key to pursuing a girl is to get to know her deeply and understand her inner thoughts and needs, rather than relying solely on appearances or confessions. We need long-term dedication and companionship to truly win her heart. I hope the above sharing can help you better understand and pursue your favorite girl!
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